Having a son ain't been the curse I thought it'd be

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7 months in and it ain't too bad. Don't get to go out as much, nights can be pretty annoying at times, and this nikka can be needy but seeing dude grow up is pretty cool.

He also a big flirt and chicks love him so I ain't even stressing.

This is probably made easier because my BM is pretty cool about the whole thing and she isn't too annoying because she thinks I'm a good dad.

School, work, and him kinda stress me out but it ain't too bad and I'm 'bout to graduate so it's gravy.
 

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It really ain't that bad. You gotta plan stuff out a bit more and the first two months will test your nerves but eh...

Most annoying thing is driving with kids because they might start crying and, if you by yourself, that can start wearing on your nerves.
 

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did he ever piss in ya grill while u changed his diaper? how long it take him to adjust to normal sleeping hours? I hope I don't have a fukking crybaby
 

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Props breh. I'm terrified to have a seed. I'm still selfish and raising myself is a challenge in its self. But I hope to have a son as well. If could meet a mixed chick that was cool and it was her turn to have twins I might commit that become a dad. How do you deal with him being at day care n shyt? Do you worry bout him all day?

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did he ever piss in ya grill while u changed his diaper? how long it take him to adjust to normal sleeping hours? I hope I don't have a fukking crybaby

Nah, he's pissed all over my sheets though. If your watching him, you can usually tell when piss is coming and react accordingly.

The first couple of weeks won't be so bad because he's just gonna wanna sleep and eat. After that, you'll probably have a month and a half of messy sleep habits where he'll obviously be tired but won't sleep. After the 3rd or 4th month, it'll vary (2 weeks of sleeping through the night, one week of craziness, etc) but you get used to it.

Protip: Have the radio playing or TV on when he's sleeping. You don't want him getting used to needing absolute silence to sleep.

Biggest things about crying are usually him being gassy, needing to be changed, or being startled. He's gonna be a crybaby for a bit but you'll get used to it. Don't let him cry it out though. It sucks to get up but I'm happy I didn't do it.

My little dude is 7 months, he's real social, and he learns real quick. He's also not quick to cry unless something is actually bothering him.
 

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Props breh. I'm terrified to have a seed. I'm still selfish and raising myself is a challenge in its self. But I hope to have a son as well. If could meet a mixed chick that was cool and it was her turn to have twins I might commit that become a dad. How do you deal with him being at day care n shyt? Do you worry bout him all day?

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I was selfish as hell too but you kinda just learn to not put yourself first. Like it just happened naturally for him.

Na, I don't worry about him, daycare wise, because the person who takes care of him raised my little brother and they're pretty much family. Like, if my mom's up and passed away, they would have took me and my kin in with absolutely no reservation.

His mom is a good chick, got her head on her shoulders and isn't really a club or party type. Her family loves me and my son so I just got pretty lucky with this
 

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Your still in that :ahh: phase wait till he starts teething..... hold up.

Do you live with the mother of your child?

http://i.imgur.com/Ye1tGNB.jpg

Already started and he taking it like a boss. Barely ever cries but he likes to eat everything and he will bite the crap outta you.

Eh, she's not in my lease or anything but she's around constantly. If I'm not at school or work, she's usually around. She sleeps over constantly though or I sleep at her parent's crib where she technically lives.
 

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How old are you breh

Twenty three. Way too young but ain't no point in complaining or crying now. I knew what I was risking.

If I see the CEO of LifeStyle condoms in the street, I'm smacking the skin off that nikka though :pacspit:
 

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heh, my boy'll be 3 next month :myman: i WISH my son could be that age again.. :ohlawd: believe what they say about terrible twos!! shyt is real fam.. but other than that, my son is f*cking awesome, literally a mini me, looks like me, acts like me, and likes the same things as me. and im like his hero. and hes HILLARIOUS, cracks me up on the daily and learns at an unbelievable pace :to: enjoy the ride breh.. they really do grow up fast
 
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