Women aren't socialized or raised to take accountability. Men are though. You see it in the event a woman is hit, participates in adulterous sex, has b*stard children, or is broke financially. Hence why women get the bulk share of social services and the benefit of the doubt in the courtroom and precinct.
Great post.
Op... My answer is without qualifications, no. This goes for women whom I love and respect. Fact of life.