Has black community regressed?; Toddler going off on woman "I need a new b*tch..on the dead homies"

Wildhundreds

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Nah don’t put this on the whole community. Put this on his parents. I don’t know any kids who talk like that—none of my friends have kids that talk like that or my relatives. This is a certain subset of our community that’s regressing and doing this type of shyt. It’s not funny. It’s sad.

But look I don’t claim any association to the hood rats, ratchets, thugs, the illiterate, the criminals, the gays, trans, the IR/pawgset/swirlers and the c00ns in our community. They don’t represent me or speak for me. So what they do is what they do. I’m going to pray for this boy because it’s not his fault that his parents aren’t shyt. I always feel for the kids.

Its always the lazy mfers talking that "it takes a community" bullshyt..

The community concept arises from the mother doing her part.. The community sees her kid messing up, then the community steps in and says, "I know your mother taught you better than this"..

Now days if the community tries to discipline these kids, the parents coming with smoke.. Nobody has time for that bullshyt because we all got our own issues to deal with.
 

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Fathers absolutely need to be in the house. Just because there are outliers doesn’t mean it’s the norm. Of course there are going to be individual success stories. Lebron james grew up with a single mother and today he’s a loving father and faithful husband and a credit to the community. But for every 1 lebron James there are hundreds like him who are in jail or dead because they grew up in single mother households. Those are the ones we need to be concerned about.

Both of you are right.

What you're looking at is the most ideal structure. You have a responsible mother and father in the home, it provides stability, balance, and suitable role models.

However the operative word is responsible which is what I think @MyAccount is getting at. Just putting a father in someone's life will not automatically improve their life. There are father in this world who abuse their children, encourage them to commit crimes etc.

@MyAccount is right to acknowledge middle ground. It doesn't go from bright future to menace to society just by not having a dad around. When people talk of putting a father in the kid's life, the assumption is that that father will be responsible, no? Therefore you are giving the kid something they don't have, a responsible adult which is his point.
 

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The child is obviously observant, why not teach him something useful?

A lot of bad kids start off bright and thirsty for knowledge, but they miss out due to poor guidance.


All of this.. Kids are sponges.
 

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Both of you are right.

What you're looking at is the most ideal structure. You have a responsible mother and father in the home, it provides stability, balance, and suitable role models.

However the operative word is responsible which is what I think @MyAccount is getting at. Just putting a father in someone's life will not automatically improve their life. There are father in this world who abuse their children, encourage them to commit crimes etc.

@MyAccount is right to acknowledge middle ground. It doesn't go from bright future to menace to society just by not having a dad around. When people talk of putting a father in the kid's life, the assumption is that that father will be responsible, no? Therefore you are giving the kid something they don't have, a responsible adult which is his point.

The mother by nature is supposed to nurture the child.. Nourish and teach the child.. The father is actually supposed to reinforce the nourishment and bring the masculinity and protection to the mix..

Dealing with kids isn't that hard.. It becomes difficult only when you don't see it as being important..
 
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I don’t see the appeal of this lifestyle. Perhaps it’s because I wasn’t raised in this kind of environment. But baby aside, I can’t understand why this is considered a desirable lifestyle.
 

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I don’t see the appeal of this lifestyle. Perhaps it’s because I wasn’t raised in this kind of environment. But baby aside, I can’t understand why this is considered a desirable lifestyle.

A lot of pain in the community. A lot.. When one tries to cover it up is when the problems come about.
 

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First off… look at the responses on those tweets all:laff::mjlol:

second… the mama ain’t shyt and think this cute.. fukking low level piece a trash

and finally just going to say RIP to little dude or see him in prison in some years, because u can tell he’s going to be wild
 
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