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Cuz most girls don't like to approach ,so I was curious
It is very very discreet. The older women esp will approach but it's always small talk concealed with hitting on me. I'll give some examples:

2 months ago I went to a bar closing party. I'm standing alone, drinking my beer and just watching people/watching the TVs. Randomly some Asian woman approaches me. Early 40s, very attractive. She comes up straight to me and says "Hey, don't I know you from high school?" Now I'm 32, the bytch is 43. I look 32 too. shyt was so asinine and blatant. So I say no and then the conversation went from there. She tells me she's looking for her boyfriend. We talk a tiny bit more and some old woman friend interrupts us and we start talking. Asian woman disappears. I stop talking to my friend and the Asian girl comes back. Now we are having a longer conversation. In the middle of that she says that her boyfriend is white but she's dated black before. Then she starts making sexual innuendos and almost slips up talking about dikks. I told her to tell me a secret and she said she enjoys black men more. Her boyfriend comes up to me randomly, some somewhat tall fat white dude. I'm nervous as shyt bc this bytch is NOT being quiet with the flirting. So now I gotta entertain this white dude just so he doesn't suspect shyt. The girlfriend came back but eventually I lost interest and just talked to the old friend. Asian chick was pissed and then ignored me when I went outside to say bye.

It ALMOST felt cuckoldish. I think though it was more that they flirted with other people. I dunno but the conversation turned to sex QUICK.

That's how it happens. I just chill and then some random woman just says something very casual and it turns into this long drawn out convo and the next thing I know I'm getting her number. Now this is with older women. Younger women don't do this. They stare until I approach or say something. Though if they're drunk, it's a different story.
 

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Ohhhh ok, makes sense. I thought you meant all women.


It is very very discreet. The older women esp will approach but it's always small talk concealed with hitting on me. I'll give some examples:

2 months ago I went to a bar closing party. I'm standing alone, drinking my beer and just watching people/watching the TVs. Randomly some Asian woman approaches me. Early 40s, very attractive. She comes up straight to me and says "Hey, don't I know you from high school?" Now I'm 32, the bytch is 43. I look 32 too. shyt was so asinine and blatant. So I say no and then the conversation went from there. She tells me she's looking for her boyfriend. We talk a tiny bit more and some old woman friend interrupts us and we start talking. Asian woman disappears. I stop talking to my friend and the Asian girl comes back. Now we are having a longer conversation. In the middle of that she says that her boyfriend is white but she's dated black before. Then she starts making sexual innuendos and almost slips up talking about dikks. I told her to tell me a secret and she said she enjoys black men more. Her boyfriend comes up to me randomly, some somewhat tall fat white dude. I'm nervous as shyt bc this bytch is NOT being quiet with the flirting. So now I gotta entertain this white dude just so he doesn't suspect shyt. The girlfriend came back but eventually I lost interest and just talked to the old friend. Asian chick was pissed and then ignored me when I went outside to say bye.

It ALMOST felt cuckoldish. I think though it was more that they flirted with other people. I dunno but the conversation turned to sex QUICK.

That's how it happens. I just chill and then some random woman just says something very casual and it turns into this long drawn out convo and the next thing I know I'm getting her number. Now this is with older women. Younger women don't do this. They stare until I approach or say something. Though if they're drunk, it's a different story.
 

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- Girls thinking you’re rude because you don’t come out of your way to speak to them at a party/gathering
- Girls having gatherings at their houses and of all the guys there, she wants to do introduce you to her Mum
- Guys feeling insecure when they bring their girl around because they feel like you draw too much attention

If you’re tall, handsome (I don’t think I am but I get told I am) and you’ve got a good job and money...you know these problems :wow:
 

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If I could be two inches taller I could join tallgang and be a triple threat outchea :beli:
nikka u betta stop tripping over that height shyt. Couple of the biggest players I knew (shyt, still know) reached a peak height of 5'6"-7" (@ the most, I feel like I'm highballing tho). These cats had the most chicks comin up and still goin strong. Hell one of em a P out in Vegas
 

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I used to work with a nikka who was handsome as fukk and knew it. Thousands of IG follows attractive. There aint too many men out there with that look. I couldn't even look him in the eye when he talked to me, just made me feel anxious and unworthy.
I never ever felt like this around a bad was woman. How u grown and can't look a mothafukka in the eye?
 

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It is very very discreet. The older women esp will approach but it's always small talk concealed with hitting on me. I'll give some examples:

2 months ago I went to a bar closing party. I'm standing alone, drinking my beer and just watching people/watching the TVs. Randomly some Asian woman approaches me. Early 40s, very attractive. She comes up straight to me and says "Hey, don't I know you from high school?" Now I'm 32, the bytch is 43. I look 32 too. shyt was so asinine and blatant. So I say no and then the conversation went from there. She tells me she's looking for her boyfriend. We talk a tiny bit more and some old woman friend interrupts us and we start talking. Asian woman disappears. I stop talking to my friend and the Asian girl comes back. Now we are having a longer conversation. In the middle of that she says that her boyfriend is white but she's dated black before. Then she starts making sexual innuendos and almost slips up talking about dikks. I told her to tell me a secret and she said she enjoys black men more. Her boyfriend comes up to me randomly, some somewhat tall fat white dude. I'm nervous as shyt bc this bytch is NOT being quiet with the flirting. So now I gotta entertain this white dude just so he doesn't suspect shyt. The girlfriend came back but eventually I lost interest and just talked to the old friend. Asian chick was pissed and then ignored me when I went outside to say bye.

It ALMOST felt cuckoldish. I think though it was more that they flirted with other people. I dunno but the conversation turned to sex QUICK.

That's how it happens. I just chill and then some random woman just says something very casual and it turns into this long drawn out convo and the next thing I know I'm getting her number. Now this is with older women. Younger women don't do this. They stare until I approach or say something. Though if they're drunk, it's a different story.

i think you were about to become a bull in a cuckhold relationship, women of all diff ethnicity espcially the older ones love younger men.
 

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nikka u betta stop tripping over that height shyt. Couple of the biggest players I knew (shyt, still know) reached a peak height of 5'6"-7" (@ the most, I feel like I'm highballing tho). These cats had the most chicks comin up and still goin strong. Hell one of em a P out in Vegas
I'm 5'10, maybe 5'11. I just wanna be that even 6
 

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Man, this topic makes me remember the countless girls that were into me and I didn't take advantage. I always assumed girls were BS'ing me when they'd always say I was handsome and give me other compliments. I think part of me felt good about it, but a part of me didn't truly believe girls could be into me on that level. This is going all the way back to middle school and up. Instead, I'd usually display low self-esteem type of behavior to turn them off and I'd drop back to square 1.

Really sucks thinking about all of the opportunities I didn't take advantage of throughout my life. Self-sabotage at its finest. Gotta make up for all of that going forward.
 
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