Guy goes viral for saying he’s not taking a Chicago Woman to dinner

[The ADD]

• Can’t blame her for not wanting to go to his place
• Can’t blame him for initially wanting to not go heavy on the first interaction
• Dude should have suggested something public that wasn’t costly and she turned it down then he’s better off.

People routinely make this to difficult

 

[kaldurahm]

• Can’t blame her for not wanting to go to his place
• Can’t blame him for initially wanting to not go heavy on the first interaction
• Dude should have suggested something public that wasn’t costly and she turned it down then he’s better off.

People routinely make this to difficult

Seriously. It's super easy nowadays, but people making it difficult for no reason

 

[JQ Legend]

If a chick absolutely requires you to take her on a date/spend money on her to meet up with u, she really ain’t feeling u like that

Brehs was really on here a few weeks ago trying to argue with me that a substantial amount of women have low body counts

Every single woman who successfully convinced you she’s difficult to get into bed had dudes she was down to fukk the first day she met him. Prolly more than the body count she told you. You just wasn’t one of them.

 

[DatNkkaCutty]

I've told multiple hoes...

"You've got it backwards."

Won't be gettin no extravagant dinner, boat ride, or some extra shyt from me, on some first date (unless it was something, I was doin anyway, on my own accord). FOH.

If I'm single, then you can assume, I'm dating multiple females. I'm free to date as many females, as I want. fukk I look like, droppin a bag on multiple females, blowin all my money on dates? These broads are delusional.


And vice-versa...the chick is dating multiple dudes, having em all take her out places, splurging. You're SIMP #4... probably not even fukkin.


I tell em, if I'm taking you out (dinner), than your "special". "That's not for everyone." We can meet for a coffee, somewhere, or a drink, instead.

Then they say...."That makes sense."

I gotta chill with you, one on one, before I decide to be seen publicly, with you. I gotta see how you move, and operate. I gotta sample the milk, before I buy the cow (spend my hard-earned money). Any other way, would be ass backwards.

 

[At30wecashout]

I’m not inviting some lady to my apartment are those first few dates. We can go to a pizza bar where for $40 we can have food, drinks, and conversation. Anything more than that is a red flag to me.

 

[DatNkkaCutty]

We can go to a pizza bar where for $40 we can have food, drinks, and conversation. Anything more than that is a red flag to me.

This.

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"So where you taking me, out to? What do you have planned?"

 

[CodeBlaMeVi]

It’s an example of it happening lol.

Ain’t no culture shift happening either it’s mainstream for nikkas to casually trick on bytches…how many rap songs you got in rotation where the nikka says some shyt like “I spent a check on that p*ssy” like he cool as shyt Think about all the scammers on social media that spend tons of cash on their bytch Future, the HOH gawd, be talking about how much bread he throws hoes


The culture is enabling that trick shyt, play dumb if you want to

Ironically, I don’t consume a lot of tricking music and get instantly annoyed actually.

 

[Nokids]

I used to tell bytches to pull up to the crib but now a nikka got too much nice shyt in there and I be paranoid about coming home and my door kicked down

 

[CodeBlaMeVi]

I used to tell bytches to pull up to the crib but now a nikka got too much nice shyt in there and I be paranoid about coming home and my door kicked down

Mess with higher caliber women, breh.

 

[Formerly Black Trash]

It’s an example of it happening lol.

Ain’t no culture shift happening either it’s mainstream for nikkas to casually trick on bytches…how many rap songs you got in rotation where the nikka says some shyt like “I spent a check on that p*ssy” like he cool as shyt Think about all the scammers on social media that spend tons of cash on their bytch Future, the HOH gawd, be talking about how much bread he throws hoes


The culture is enabling that trick shyt, play dumb if you want to

Yeah some nikkas are still tricking, but I def think a cultural shift is happening

And you didn't say if your aunt was busting it open

If dude doing all that and he ain't fukking that's embarrassing to his wife

Buying women dinner was looked at as regular

There will always be nikkas who will want to trick on women either to get ahead of the line or because she wouldn't fukk with them otherwise

 

[Apollo Creed]

Yeah some nikkas are still tricking, but I def think a cultural shift is happening

And you didn't say if your aunt was busting it open

If dude doing all that and he ain't fukking that's embarrassing to his wife

Buying women dinner was looked at as regular

There will always be nikkas who will want to trick on women either to get ahead of the line or because she wouldn't fukk with them otherwise

Stop conflating tricking and simping.

98% of the time dudes are SIMPING.

 

[Womb Raider]

Yeah some nikkas are still tricking, but I def think a cultural shift is happening

And you didn't say if your aunt was busting it open

If dude doing all that and he ain't fukking that's embarrassing to his wife

Buying women dinner was looked at as regular

There will always be nikkas who will want to trick on women either to get ahead of the line or because she wouldn't fukk with them otherwise

I didn’t ask, but either way spending all that on another woman when you’re married is embarrassing

 

[kt773]

Dudes ain’t spending money on women like that anymore. Let’s be honest, it’s a test to see if a woman is really interested in you and DTF. This whole Will, Jada and Chris thing exposed something I’ve always known to the world and men have caught on. Women have no consistent standards when it comes to men. They treat men that they are sexually attracted to leniently versus men they are indifferent or repulsed by. If it was a man she desired sexually, it would have been a go. Women have had sex with men they just met unprotected before.

nikkas stay tricking out here my cousin one of them, I don’t know why you think men not spending money on women, it’s actually got worse over the Covid break down , men out here spending money on onlyfans and in real life bro at a high rate, sending hoes money Thru zelle and cash app….hopefully they learn one day to not use money as a weapon to fukk when they want to , because you don’t have to

 

[Formerly Black Trash]

I didn’t ask, but either way spending all that on another woman when you’re married is embarrassing

True but if you aint even smashing

 

[CodeBlaMeVi]

nikkas stay tricking out here my cousin one of them, I don’t know why you think men not spending money on women, it’s actually got worse over the Covid break down , men out here spending money on onlyfans and in real life bro at a high rate, sending hoes money Thru zelle and cash app….hopefully they learn one day to not use money as a weapon to fukk when they want to , because you don’t have to

Cultural shift doesn’t mean everybody.​