Gun Owners and Carriers, Lets Talk About People Pushing Your Hand

[DreadHead P]

I understand why you did that but you could've avoided it all by not letting your woman take the lead. She led you into OVER recognizing the ice grills the brothers were giving you, she didn't have to keep telling you, one ice grill is enough for you to assess they weren't cool. Next, she led you out of the club which resulted into another situation, never let a woman lead you especially in a crowd, you're the man so you pave the way. You almost got into a situation that could've been bad for you AND your girl, I'm glad you didn't have to bang. Lastly, don't take your dove to hole in the wall anythings, keep it classy Dread.

- she didn't lead me to them, it's a small place and we had to walk pass them to leave, there is no other way
- in a situation like this I don't want her trailing behind me, I let her go first so I could watch her back, ladies first
- once more, I said hole in the wall because of the size, not because of the crowd or how "hood" it is cause I've been there a few times before and it's never a bad crowd, these 3 dudes just happened to be on some bull shyt. Furthermore these cats didn't look like broke dusty nikkas, what's to keep them and cats like them from goin to "classy" strip clubs doin the same thing?

 

[RedBull]

- she didn't lead me to them, it's a small place and we had to walk pass them to leave, there is no other way
- in a situation like this I don't want her trailing behind me, I let her go first so I could watch her back, ladies first
- once more, I said hole in the wall because of the size, not because of the crowd or how "hood" it is cause I've been there a few times before and it's never a bad crowd, these 3 dudes just happened to be on some bull shyt. Furthermore these cats didn't look like broke dusty nikkas, what's to keep them and cats like them from goin to "classy" strip clubs doin the same thing?

Okay breh, you be careful good brother.

 

[nineteeneightysix]

You should shoot your "girl," since she is the one who got you feeling all paranoid...

 

[DreadHead P]

You should shoot your "girl," since she is the one who got you feeling all paranoid...

What kinda bytch shyt is that? you'd rather check your girl for watching you back then check some nikkas clearly sending signs of overaggression?

 

[Mass]

Bruh. All i gotta say is.
You did the almost right thing. Shoulda tried to keep it moving as much as possible.
Because
If these niccas is bout it, they gonna remember you... And that, friend, is no good... Esp if u live around there

 

[You Win Perfect]

I just got my license to carry but been shooting for a few years. Have never been close to using it. Don't draw it if you are not going to pull the trigger because if you are just using it for intimidation your card will get pulled very soon. I know if you threatened me with a "cock" sound just to be some bad ass. I would have shot you on site. You lucky they didn't have guns. Sounds like you didn't even aim your piece you just cocked it.

 

[DreadHead P]

I just got my license to carry but been shooting for a few years. Have never been close to using it. Don't draw it if you are not going to pull the trigger because if you are just using it for intimidation your card will get pulled very soon. I know if you threatened me with a "cock" sound just to be some bad ass. I would have shot you on site. You lucky they didn't have guns. Sounds like you didn't even aim your piece you just cocked it.

I wasn't doin it to be a bad ass, I was doin it to let them know they not bout to fukk wit me while me and my lady out minding our business, nothin tough guyish about that, no shots just lettin be known that whatever you planning ain't goin down that easy

 

[AlwaysLurkin]

Since you was already in ya car it was really no need to pull the gun out

 

[Black]

So you'd die over this female?

 

[Yakno1]

So you'd die over this female?

n1ggaz crazy I tell you.....thread starter I'm going to assume this was night club hours right, so as you know n1ggaz is probably in there drinking....you going get mugs/dirty looks w/e in a whole in the wall type spot.....you no more a gangsta pressing the issue with them than if you let the issue slide....as long as you are not physically harmed


now how did you approach them n'gaz? Did u approach them as men on some cool calm and respectful type sh1t or did u encroach on some aggressive type sh1t? It also sounds like your girl wearing the wranglers if she's the 1 in control....and u did the right thing by taking the exit because with your girl you probably should have never been in there in the 1st place...u know the environment

and if u think u was going let off and get off on some manslaughter type sh1t being a BLACK MAN in AMERICA in a setting like that....u better think TWICE

 

[DreadHead P]

Men just ain't men no more, afraid to protect our women

Most of y'all could answer your own questions if you just read the whole OP but that's too much to expect nikkas to do so I'll take blame for that one

Bottom line is if you go out of your way to show signs of aggression to a man just because he POLITELY asked you to step aside, then you have the nerve to follow this man AND and woman outside to their car then you deserve whatever that person has waiting for you in defense of themselves

Since you was already in ya car it was really no need to pull the gun out

I didn't like the way they was starin my car down, I sat there for a good minute (i let a whole song played) waitin for them to go back in because I didn't want them to see my plates, I'm not from here and I don't trust nikkas like that, after a while it was apparent that they were waitin on something. Honestly I feel them following us out the club period justified me doin what I did, you don't follow no man and his woman, the fukk is wrong wit y'all?

 

[infamousred]

it's better to have one than not have one, thats for damn sure. 95% of people will fall back just off of it being pulled out, but for that other 5%, you better be ready to unload. just recently this dude stole on me, so i had to whoop his a$$. god knows if i lived in a state like fla, and this motherfukker came at me like that, his brains would've been all over the grass.

 

[MikeBrownsJob]

OP I wouldn't have cocked my gun but shh if I feel threatened better to pull it first and ask questions later

 

[Reality]

damn near had to pull out on some fools last night

I'm a peaceful dude, never had a problem wit usin my hands but I'm too old for that shyt now so I'll honestly try to walk away before I let shyt escalate, but some nikkas just don't get the picture till weapons are drawn.

My and my girl went to this lil hole in a wall strip club on the side of town I don't even fukk wit last night. We posted up in a love seat type booth in a corner where we had a clear view of the stage and we were right next to the bar. At some point durin the night 3 big ass dudes came in together, all 3 were at least 6'3, had to be close to 300lbs. One of them decided to post up directly in front of my chick where she couldn't see the stage so I walked up to him and politely asked if he could step to the side so my lady could see the ladies. He did it, but when I got back to my seat I noticed one of the dudes he was wit lookin back at me and sayin something to him. I ain't sweat the shyt but my girl peeped it and didn't like it. I went about my business but she kept an eye on them thru out the night and she kept tellin me how them nikkas was mean muggin me. After a while I guess it made her too uncomfortable so she told me she was ready to go, I went to the bar to get a last shot and I that's when I noticed just how hard these nikkas was ice grillin me, the shyt was obvious. On the way out, my girl was leadin, pulling me by the hand, we had to walk in between one of the dudes and another person and this nikka gone purposely step back a lil bit causing us to bump each other. I didn't break stride but I looked back over shoulder wit a sarcastic and these nikkas decide to start following us! They stood at the end of the ramp that lead to the door and watched us walk to my car which was on the other side of the lot but its a small lot so there was still a clear line of site. I still had to drive pass these nikkas to get out the lot and I ain't want them taking my licenses plate number or no shyt so I turned my music all the way down, rolled my window down, pull my piece out and cocked it as loud as I could so they could hear it and just looked em like , anybody that's ever heard a loaded gun cock knows its an unmistakable sound. Dem nikkas dropped their cigarettes and walked back in the club slowly like they wasn't worried about me which was cool wit me cause I wasn't lookin for no trouble, I just wasn't bout to let them nikkas try whatever they had in mind

I honestly we wish we lived in a world where we could do without guns but that shyt just ain't reality

bytch logic right here.

sorry breh.

 

[TheArchitect]

It's where she wanted to go, we live in Columbia, there are no upscale spots here, this spot wasn't that bad that though, it's in the main strip so it ain't ducked off in the cut, it's just small

Oh you in GA? I used to live in Augusta....