Grown women admit that they are single because Black men don’t fight for love anymore

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I applaud the Young Bulls out here. Chicks back in the day really had the average brehs in a blender. Chicks really used a mixture of fast talking, shame, the possibility of p*ssy, and propaganda to get brehs to trick and jump through hoops.

Young brehs have seen the games being played and are calling their bluff. You love to see it :banderas:
 
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To play devil's advocate, let's put aside the redpill talk for a second. I wasn't around those years, but in the 70s, 80s, or 90s dating did look better.:jbhmm: I'll let the older guys speak on it, but dating DID seem more simple back then. Hell even dating in the early 2000s seemed better.

No dating apps, no Facebook/IG, no smartphones. Only nikkas you competing with was down the street, not 5 states over. Not simp ballers/rappers. No wenches spreading toxic talking points. You actually had to call the house and speak to one of the parents. Women's standards seemed way more grounded too. There was Chilvary, but in the words of Dave, women killed it.
Social media, dating apps, smart phones and women's phones being blown up is why things have changed. They have more options, more access to those options, and endless simps gassing them up. Social media makes a 4 think she's a 10.

But things were absolutely not perfect back in the 90's and 00's, but much, much better than now.
 

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dating hasn't changed. Most women stunt for the gram or whatever these day. but they not all getting flown out of state by some rich simp.
Majority of them have lives like anybody else and aren't leaving all their family and friends behind for a lick. We aren't messing with basketball wives just regular women. most people still gotta clock in to the same job every morning.
I'm sorry but this is delusional. Women made lists of places not to take them on social media just the other month. They will absolutely use men for dates, openly. To say dating hasn't changed is foolish.
 

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If "fighting for love" means "endless of arguments", then they can keep that bullshyt away from me.

I love black women and a true believer of black love, but I be damned if I let a black woman stress me out arguing over pointless shyt.
Fight for my love means take me out and give me that soft life
Dinners after dinners etc
Gifts
Bags
 

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I'm sorry but this is delusional. Women made lists of places not to take them on social media just the other month. They will absolutely use men for dates, openly. To say dating hasn't changed is foolish.
Social media is not reality breh. In my experience women don't know where tf they want to go.
 

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Yeah my wife used to hit me with this, “why don’t you fight for me!” stuff, after I worked 6 days per week, made time for us five times a week, levelled up our lives, and did romantic shyt as requested.

Well now we’re broken up and it’s about five women in my phone right fighting for my love.

She has since admitted to having unrealistic expectations (among other things).

Smh.
 

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Not every man is interesting in humbling himself. Putting his spirit and dignity on the line to "fight for love"
It’s emasculating and lowkey about power and control, a way to fill whatever void exists based on someone’s insecurities and low feelings of self worth. A confident woman will never ask you to fight for love. In fact, they’ll give you love and negotiate the details like a rational adult when things aren’t what she would desire.
 
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