Elle Seven
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i guess I shouldn’t expect my own people to act civilized huh
Respectfully, sir, one would move better thru life never 'expecting' anything from anyone. Doing that takes you out of your intuitive mind where you can enter a space, "feel" it in the moment and act in kind. Even animals move like this. Assuming someone will react like you, has been conditioned to act like you or is even motivated to act like you is an effective way to get hurt.
Best you can do is model the respect for others you wish them to show in return. By calling these sistahs out of their names, you modeled vulgarity.