Na, not a good wife. A man has to be leader but as a leader, he has to take the responsibility of not corrupting his role. You cannot have 2 argumentative dominant people in a relationship either. You gotta have a woman that genuinely respects you and you must give that respect back to her and ensure she's happy just like a business to keep its employees. There also must be a mutual agreement of trust and financial strategy.
Granted, there are men that corrupt that role and turn their wives into slaves or emotional punching bags like Derrick Jaxn or something and I think those are the men you're referring to.
I'm saying to find a woman that will stay with you, she simply has to be submissive and more in love with you than you with her otherwise you'll turn into a weak man in her eyes and eventually you'll be a simp on worldstar telling the world, men should pay all the bills while your son is whooping your ass and your wifey is smashing the mailman and dude next door cause you work 12 jobs for her to spa in your crib.