#GMB..Girlfriend refused to be exclusive until her Boyfriend proposed

[Krazy K]

She didn't want that fool

she just wanted to get married and basically told that clown she ain't being exclusive to nobody unless married

and his dumb ass was like "I'll do it!"

if a woman really wants you she won't even be thinking about other men

if you the type of nikka to do this

 

[the bossman]

Again u can date without being in a monogamous relationship. U can be friends and date

your theory is just full of all type of holes no matter how you swing it. jumping from friends straight to marriage makes no sense in today's American culture. you need some frame of reference to know what this person will be like in a committed relationship before you just say I do. fukkin some random chick and going out on a couple dates while yall are still distracted messing with other people don't show you jack shyt about whether she could be a good wife for you.

Your theory only works in the 1950s and non-Western culture. In these settings if a woman is not married, it's assumed that she's not currently talking to any other dudes or fukking any other dudes period. It's also assumed that when two people do marry, they stay married for life. divorce would never be an option when bad times hit. None of these factors exist in today's American culture. so you'd be dumb as hell to operate as such

 

[Dre Space Age]

This Byatch got a mean azz negotiating skill set



And she basically played FREE AGENT till he brought her that SIGNING BONUS in the form of a RING

Corey Holcomb was right ..these Hoes play the GAME so much they should wear YANKEE CAPS

Lmfaoooooooo

 

[ultraflexed]

WHAT?!?!? If two people are exclusively dating I expect both of them to be faithful, otherwise what's the point of it all...

But she said she was not going to date exclusively up front, so your point void. Guys do this to women All the time, have rosters of women that they date and never tell the women....

 

[Claudex]

I don't think anybody is saying that she should have committed herself to a man that's not willing to commit to her

but what I'm saying is that ain't no way in hell, you're gonna be with me while still going out on dates with other men, telling me you won't be exclusive with me unless I marry you

That's retarded.

And the fact that he went for it, shows how much of a simp he is.

It would have been one thing if she told him that she wasn't willing to waste time, and told him that within X amount of months, she needed to know where they were going, and if it wasn't headed to marriage, she was gonna bounce

now THAT I can understand and would support

but for you to be out there with me, but still dating and sleeping with other men? hell naw

And the only man that would go for that is a weak-willed, broke-back, limp-wrist fakkit

no real man would EVER tolerate her foolishness

This is really how it should be, anything else is just EXTRA...and the problem with EXTRA is that after years there's always someone feeling like they've been short-changed. But hey, I hope Chris has a happy marriage.

 

[Claudex]

See you're too worried about what she's doing with other people. You can't think like that. Stop thinking less of her that she's out here laying down with every man in the city. And if she meets your parents so what- hey this is my friend so and so. then keep it moving. I'm not saying invite her over for Sunday dinner. Your parents would probably be proud that you are KEEPING YOUR OPTIONS OPEN.

Until you finally showed up like "Hey parents this is my wife-to-be! The weeding is next sunday by the way."
That's how y'all really feel about y'alls parents? Sheish.

 

[edzyy]

Guys do this behind their back anyways, I don't see the problem.....

My mother use to say "if your not married your single"..

Your mother was a hoe.

 

[Professor Emeritus]

No u can be friends then engaged then married

your theory is just full of all type of holes no matter how you swing it. jumping from friends straight to marriage makes no sense in today's American culture. you need some frame of reference to know what this person will be like in a committed relationship before you just say I do. fukkin some random chick and going out on a couple dates while yall are still distracted messing with other people don't show you jack shyt about whether she could be a good wife for you.

Your theory only works in the 1950s and non-Western culture. In these settings if a woman is not married, it's assumed that she's not currently talking to any other dudes or fukking any other dudes period. It's also assumed that when two people do marry, they stay married for life. divorce would never be an option when bad times hit. None of these factors exist in today's American culture. so you'd be dumb as hell to operate as such

I did it.

Wife was devout Christian, Egyptian background, they tend to be more conservative/traditional and I was happy to roll that way.

Knew her for six years before we got engaged, but we never dated, that was nearly a decade ago, have never regretted it.

 

[ORDER_66]

But she said she was not going to date exclusively up front, so your point void. Guys do this to women All the time, have rosters of women that they date and never tell the women....

Then if she's not gonna be with JUST me then she doesn't get a fukking ring, she's not trustworthy to even have one in my book... fukk her...

 

[OrionBC]

If this works for them or anyone else then I won't knock it. Personally this seems awkward and a quick way for someone to get emotionally hurt in the long run. It feels too much like playing with someone's feelings to me to ask someone I'm dating to in essence watch me openly date others while trying to find out if they want to be with me longterm. How can you find out if you want someone long-term if the other person is playing the field and dividing time that can be used getting to know each other in a relationship.

 

[O³ (O cubed)]

Again, in this instance I don't blame the girl. He had a choice and chose wrong.

 

[Marco Zen]

 

[Yogi]

Wow, do some of you live in the real world?? Get mad at a woman for having standards/refusing to sleep around without a commitment and get mad when she's a "hoe".

She wasn't refusing to sleep around though. She was fukking other dudes besides Chris. I guarantee she wasn't making the same demands to the other dudes.

 

[Rawtid]

if you're not married, you're single.

 

[BrehWyatt]

Friends---->dating----> committed, exclusive relationship (or engagement, for those who want to go there) ----> married...

That's how it goes, and being friends with somebody beforehand is optional. You can figure them out/see if they're compatible on that level during the dating stage.

Granted, to a lot of people, there is no point of being friends with someone that you really want to smash/cuff instead.