Trust me when I say it isn't a cac thing.
Women initiate divorces most of the time. And when those papers get summoned there's no talking her back. A women will divorce from you emotionally far before they do it legally. By the time they go through with it they already have an entire plan of action.
Men, protect yourselves by all means and always be 3 or 4 steps ahead of your woman. It is treacherous out here. One minute you're enjoying life, going on family trips and the next minute she's left with the kids and now you're in an empty house contemplating suicide. This shyt isn't a fukking game.