#GMB 100 wins 0 losses : I abandoned my baby to hide my affair from my husband

thatdude954

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C'mon breh. After 10 years a man should know his woman. There should be no type of offensive conversation. After that amount of time together,we keep each other in check. There is no more beating around bushes. We call each other on our shyt. And offer support. If a man can't do that then he deserves what he gets... I've watched my woman's weight fluctuate 75 lbs. But there was never a time where we couldn't speak about it in a cordial manner.

I can understand that there shouldn't be secrets but there also shouldn't be affairs. I can't fault someone for expecting the bare minimum from the spouse. Going off his pic, he's a pushover/goofy and she's the "greatest" thing that ever happened to him.

I agree that a couple should be able to check each other and he should of at least been skeptical but "Hey, are you pregnant with another man's baby?" Is a question that no one should even consider. Real world i guess...
 
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I can understand that there shouldn't be secrets but there also shouldn't be affairs. I can't fault someone for expecting the bare minimum from the spouse. Going off his pic, he's a pushover/goofy and she's the "greatest" thing that ever happened to him.

I agree that a couple should be able to check each other and he should of at least been skeptical but "Hey, are you pregnant with another man's baby?" Is a question that no one should even consider. Real world i guess...

I get where you are coming from, but at the same time when I suspected my girl of cheating I packed up the kids and left her ass. Whenever I have a hunch that something is foul I am checking her phone. A major part of being a man is being able to read your environment and the people that you are intertwined with.

At some point this dude just stopped giving a fukk, or he never learned in the first place... I agree there should be no secrets. But we know that it happens. I have mine. But I will be damned if I just throw caution to the wind and act like someone is not able to flip on me just because we are married and/or have children together... My gut always told me when shyt wasn't right. Now whether I chose to obey or disregard it is a different story. But I ain't never played a victim or asked for anyone's sympathy... Nor have I ever allowed that to change my outlook on life.
 

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I get where you are coming from, but at the same time when I suspected my girl of cheating I packed up the kids and left her ass. Whenever I have a hunch that something is foul I am checking her phone. A major part of being a man is being able to read your environment and the people that you are intertwined with.

At some point this dude just stopped giving a fukk, or he never learned in the first place... I agree there should be no secrets. But we know that it happens. I have mine. But I will be damned if I just throw caution to the wind and act like someone is not able to flip on me just because we are married and/or have children together... My gut always told me when shyt wasn't right. Now whether I chose to obey or disregard it is a different story. But I ain't never played a victim or asked for anyone's sympathy... Nor have I ever allowed that to change my outlook on life.

Exactly. There is reality vs expectation. Everyone is going to have their secrets because this is the real world. Yes, he should of been on top of it but I cant say its his fault. You cant pysically stop someone from cheating. You can make threats and promises and kikc and scream and beg and plead but you CANNOT control another person. I fault him for not confronting her but we dont know if he suspected her cheating. We know what kind of man he is because he stayed with her. Anyway he justifies it (I love her, its for the kids etc..) she runs that relationship and hes weak.

No shot at you but someone could say you were insecure for checking her phone. I know if a female checked my phone, i know that she is. Your reason doing it was to preserve the relationship and I get that (real world shyt) but if she snapped and said "why don't you trust me?".... On top of that if she cheated and you left she would of still cheated. The damage would be done and you would of still had to go through that heartbreak (sounds way too dramatic).

Im green to the game but I really do expect the best in people. If he can manage not to cheat on her, why shouldn't she remain faithful (expectation)?

That said, I understand that you cant blind yourself and that you have to check females cuz they will try you and they will run game. Thats why them #GMB boys dont even emtionally invest. Im not on that #GMB shyt I understand their view and that you have to be somewhat skeptical.

It sounds like SOME are afraid to love and get their heart broken. Some honestly believe no woman out their will be 100% faithful. Some believe the courts are messed up and the moment she becomes "bored", loses that love, or cheats they will get divorced and have their lives shattered. Some are truly happy with it. p*ssy/Affection from different women. Own bachelor pad. No risk of losing it. Decent benefits

I cant live like that. I want love. A chick thats gonna be there for me no matter what.
and give sloppy toppy just cuz
"Get money, fukk hoes" You must of heard that growing up? Some dudes never leave that mindset. Some become damaged. Some really do want that. Let them live
 

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That's the sad part she was with him for 10 years , plus had kids.

How could she just dip and fukk new cat.

If she with him for 10 years he must know how the fukk her. The fact is she got feed,fukked and taken care of good for 10 years but still cheated.

That why black men don't want to marry or date long term. Hell that why most men cheat srs.

Females think they can feel when something off, but men are pros at this. Soon as they feel she even acting lil shady they like ard about to call up lady number 2 since she fukking around. It's hard life to live trying to love someone when we all know that 98% of love will not last and then you left heartbroken.


That just my idea on the whole #GMB
 

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Cheating wife dumps secret baby to hide affair from husband

Woman Abandons Her Newborn Baby After Giving Birth in Secret to Hide Affair From Husband


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she should have taken the baby to hospital

in america she can do that...

but yeah, them hoes aint loyal
 

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The #GMB movement reminds me of a little boys nightmare. coli militants talk about black pride, passing on legacies, and trifling ass fatherless children. Yet everyone professes to not want to create a family and pass on generational wealth. If you scared of getting hit for what you worked for... Get a prenup. If you are afraid of being cheated on, master your stroke game. If you are afraid of a woman leaving you for another man, learn how to be a Man yourself and be intuitive to your woman's needs.

We will never be a strong black nation as long as ninjas stay in this infantile state and chant the mantra of someone who is not American and whose overall experience with women is dealing with "pawgs" Some of ya'll sound fatherless. And from reading most of the responses, a lot of you sound like you lack experience.

I am pro black, I realize that I am only as strong as my family structure. And due to the love that I have for my children and "our" standing in Amerikkka I do the best that I can with what I have... I only play for one team. I can't lay with a woman that is not on the team. I cannot lay with a woman that does not have the interest of my children first and foremost. Now if anyone of you want to seriously discuss this with me address this post. But the coli aint about it being that way when you you want it to be your way... This shyt is getting disgusting.
Shut up simp hold this neg. :francis:
 

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:yeshrug:from a male pov, that's a rubbish deal to be honest
ud also hafta look at it from my point of view, i didnt wanna ruin his life he was 22 or 23 maybe n here i was a divorcee with 4, i didnt wanna tie him down to a ready made family, i gave him plenty of outs and he wouldnt take them. so as long as we r happy we good.
 
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