This is interesting.
I personally am pretty progressive for the most part. I support reparations for black Americans and other black groups from their respective colonizer/enslaver, secularism, much higher taxes for the rich and super wealthy, anti-capitalism and democratic socialistic systems, anti-imperialism, African and global south self determination and am supportive of LGBT freedoms. I also understand as others have astutely mentioned that women are still oppressed globally and that women’s lib can only occur in progressively economic, political and sociocultural conditions.
I have criticized (white dominated and colonial strains of) feminism heavily on here for its anti-blackness and antagonism of black men and women but again I get why women are becoming more progressive, anti-current order and feministic. “Child marriage” is rife across the world and it almost completely affects female children. Marital rape and intimate partner violence against women are commonplace in dozens and dozens of cultures. Women are still playing catch up in wealth parity in comparison to their male counterparts. Reproductive rights have been getting attacked relentlessly in by west and abroad. I haven’t even gone in depth about FGM, honour killings, labia stretching, the killing of “witches”, femicide etc.
To paraphrase Kenyan artist Wangechi Mutu: to be a woman is to basically not be your own person.
I have empathy for women and girls. I have been radicalized as a lower middle class black man with a disability/chronic illness and I empathize with the growing radicalization of women and girls. Misogyny is genuinely senseless thing and as others have said: the men of industrialized societies in particular are failing to catch up to the level of progress women are aspiring to.
I’ve had many men in my life who say patriarchy is “normal and the order of things”. This is false. It is a system engendered by capitalism-imperialism, sexual exploitation and rape culture, fundamentalist religion and the suppression of female spiritual paradigms and the “might makes right” culture which inherently excludes women due to the physiological strength differential between the sexes. Reading Black male studies and Africana woman’s philosophy has been therapeutic for me and has helped me understand how patriarchy must be defeated just like white supremacy for their to be true justice. We all live under a white man’s patriarchy: if you are on the fence as a black man, ask yourself how another man’s hatred of women, gays and out group males (including black men) benefits you? Conservatism imho is just the hatred of women, gays, poor people, the disabled and out-group males.
Women hold up half the sky. I support them in their endeavors of seeking autonomy, liberation purpose and personhood. Our female counterparts, daughters, mothers, sisters, female friends and relatives and the rest of womankind etc deserve their humanity to honoured.