Getting Hooked Up W/A Chick/Dude Thru A Friend?

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Do yaw ever get put in these situations? I have an older friend who was telling me about a girl who does her nails a few weeks ago, said she was faf; today her and I had coffee and she texted the girl and asked for a pic and then sent it to my ass. Is it on some


Or just b/s. Do yaw ever fukk with ppl thru hookups?
 

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I don't like being hooked up with anyone.
I like things to happen naturally.

Also, and I admit this is very insecure of me, I don't like the idea of a mutual friend hooking us up because I feel that he/she will know more shyt about my relationship than I would like. I'm just a private person like that. If there's drama or something, you can bet they know all about that shyt.

Anyway, nah.
 

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I dont mind makes it easy on me. Just as long as my friend stays out the biz
 

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Yeah man, stand on your own two
I don't like being hooked up with anyone.
I like things to happen naturally.

Also, and I admit this is very insecure of me, I don't like the idea of a mutual friend hooking us up because I feel that he/she will know more shyt about my relationship than I would like. I'm just a private person like that. If there's drama or something, you can bet they know all about that shyt.

Anyway, nah.
Nw I do too, and I do stand on my own. It's just funny my friend is in her 40's she's intelligent and shyt but last few times I've seen her she's mentioned this girl to me although she know I'm not even tryna be boo'd up. And today she sending me a pic got me thinking she's on some love connect shyt.

Blahhh I know, I'm private too, that's why the shyt kinda got me all weary tbh. But who knows tbh
 

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Having someone hook you up is mad passive/ impotent. You want to always be on prowl and aggressive or at least get hooked up spontaneously at a friend's party or something.
 

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Nw I do too, and I do stand on my own. It's just funny my friend is in her 40's she's intelligent and shyt but last few times I've seen her she's mentioned this girl to me although she know I'm not even tryna be boo'd up. And today she sending me a pic got me thinking she's on some love connect shyt.

Blahhh I know, I'm private too, that's why the shyt kinda got me all weary tbh. But who knows tbh

Just let it happen. New experiences breh
 

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Having someone hook you up is mad passive/ impotent. You want to always be on prowl and aggressive or at least get hooked up spontaneously at a friend's party or something.
I think this shyt is spontaneous though just bc it wasn't like "damn I'm looking for someone help me" she just randomly mentioned it. Anyway I'm not on the prowl just look a lot, dont want the trouble but if it gets put in my hands then it's like why not :yeshrug:
 

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I think this shyt is spontaneous though just bc it wasn't like "damn I'm looking for someone help me" she just randomly mentioned it. Anyway I'm not on the prowl just look a lot, dont want the trouble but if it gets put in my hands then it's like why not :yeshrug:

It goes from spontaneous to planned, cause you know she's in her other friends ear saying the same thing, talking about you, painting a picture. Not really into it.
 

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If that relationship doesn't work out, it's going to be awkward for everyone involved.
You, the ex and the mutual friend.

That mutual friend has to either pick a side, which is going to hurt one person.
Or carefully act like a middle man with no opinion, which is just going to make them come across as fake.

Just one big mess, the way I see it.
 

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It goes from spontaneous to planned, cause you know she's in her other friends ear saying the same thing, talking about you, painting a picture. Not really into it.
Yeahhh I hear that, that's that girly extra shyt tbh.
 
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