Getting a Divorce Brehs...

[Lavish]

No shade breh, but $12.50 an hour?

I kind of have to side with her. if I was your homie, id probably tell you the same thing.

congrats on being manager, but please enlighten us on whats so great about being manager at best buy? I mean it kind of has that "Im manager at mcdonalds" type of vibe to it...like what you making? $17/hr? c'mon man. it sounds like you overreacted. It not like she left you when she found out where you wanted to work. she just asked you a question and you ready to throw her in the bushes

I could understand if you wanted to be a musician, or an athelete, or anything profession that you had dreams of being and she shytted on you...

but I refuse to believe you had dreams of becoming manager at best buy

Maybe you just need to give us more details of this situation, because from what you posted, you sound irrational.

your happiness is definately more important, but I'm just lost at how something like that could make you unhappy.

 

[Rarely-Wrong Liggins]

Managers at Best Buy make more than fukking $17 an hour. With bonuses they can make over $70k. Oh wait, this is the Coli where we all make 300k which is really nothing in the grand scheme of things. You're right, OP is an idiot. Almost forgot where I was and who I was for a second.

 

[Sad Bunny]

This nikka divorced his wife because he wanted to work at best buy

 

[Paisley Darts]

Did you have a pre-nup? If not, did you make more money than her?

 

[Lavish]

Managers at Best Buy make more than fukking $17 an hour. With bonuses they can make over $70k. Oh wait, this is the Coli where we all make 300k which is really nothing in the grand scheme of things. You're right, OP is an idiot. Almost forgot where I was and who I was for a second.

quote me next time soft ass nikka.

I asked the question because I really dont know whats so good about becoming a manger at best buy...if he's making 70k then I totally understand.

 

[aa_2001]

Managers at Best Buy make more than fukking $17 an hour. With bonuses they can make over $70k. Oh wait, this is the Coli where we all make 300k which is really nothing in the grand scheme of things. You're right, OP is an idiot. Almost forgot where I was and who I was for a second.

Some people love to speak out of ignorance.

 

[Rarely-Wrong Liggins]

I posted right under you. @Lavish

 

[Ziggiy]

she had a point. she may have turned out to be wrong, but she's allowed to express her reservations.

kinda weird you can't forgive a woman you decided to marry tbh. if that was some girl you were dating i'd see your point, but damn, you stood in front of people and vowed to be with this woman and you gonna refuse to get over some perceived slight from 6 months ago? she mighta been going through some shyt at the same time and it was your job to be supportive of her, no?

if you couldn't do that, then you're doing the right thing with divorce. but the way you phrased it, you need some humility breh. please feel free to give more details because i realize im going off 2 paragraphs, but those were the 2 paragraphs you dropped on us so

The fact of the matter is that I spent two years supporting her while she decided if she wanted to go to Law School, be a paralegal, work at Nordstroms, work at Verizon, or whatever else. I supported her. Even when I was making the majority of the income and she was studying for the LSAT. I never questioned her. Came back from Afghanistan with almost 8K in savings (of which she contributed not ONE penny) and having decided to leave the Army now was my time to decide how I was going to transition back into civilian life.

The truth is I worked for Best Buy before, loved it. I love retail, I love helping customers, I love technology. All of those romantic gifts and surprises and trips she loved so much years beforehand. Best buy checks paid for that. I was making more than $12.50 before all of this, supporting myself, paying all of my bills, etc. BEFOREHAND as an unmarried man. She knew all of this. So for her to at ANY point question my commitment to being successful in wanting to return as a grown ass MARRIED man was the absolute pinnacle of disrespect. I don't give a fukk what your misgivings are, you do not look your husband, the husband who has supported you emotionally and financially since even before we were married, in eye and suggest sarcastically that he will enter middle age as a failure.


It will not be tolerated.


Call me whatever you like Brehs or think what you are entitled to think. But my personal code of living is that to be married to somebody who has that little faith in you after your entire life has been spent proving to the contrary is simply unacceptable.

 

[Lavish]

I posted right under you. @Lavish

if you gonna throw shade, atleast make it known. when you dont quote me or tag me, it comes across like you a soft as nikka affraid of a lil verbal thrashing.

Again, I merely asked a question

I dont make 300k and even if I did, id still say 70k is good. if thats what he's really making. it just has that manager at mcdonalds sound to it..

but if im wrong im wrong.

 

[InDePickWest]

I was coming out of the Army, deciding what I wanted to do. Decided I wanted to go back to work for Best Buy. She looked me right in my face and said "So your going to be 35 years old making $12.50".

That was literally the moment where I completely and utterly fell out of love with her. NO woman in the history of my existence has ever been allowed to disrespect me, my work ethic, nor my decision making to such a disgusting level. Especially a woman whose hand I took in marriage...

So I did exactly what I had to do. Started back at the bottom part time and worked myself back to Manager in 5 months. Three promotions, three pay raises (plus bonuses). And after that time period I didn't feel as if she deserved to be a part of my success as she wasn't supportive during my hustle and struggle. Once I made manager she wanted to talk about how proud of me she was and all that shyt but I told her straight up I didn't make it because of her. I made it DESPITE of her and I didn't want her nor the marriage any longer. I actually told her all of this two months ago but she begged and pleaded for another chance talking about how sorry she was and she always believed in me and she was just frustrated during that time period. She wanted to go to counseling and I tried it but nah....the damage had been done. Once you disrespect a man.... TRULY disrespect him, he will never forgive you

Weak nikka shyt.


She hurt your feelings so you disrespect VOWS and end a MARRIAGE?
She didn't support you at one time in your life.

My parents didn't support me when I dropped out of high school for two weeks cuz I was sure I didn't need a diploma to be a singer ..but that was 8th grade nikka.

 

[Rarely-Wrong Liggins]

And breh did the right thing. Why the fukk would I want a woman looking down on me for taking a $12.50 an hour job to get on my feet? That's better than $0. Unless she has a connect paying me $22 then shut up and deal with it or move on. Now yeah, I'm still making $12 an hour ten years later feel free to shyt on me.

 

[Poitier]

This is why we need tougher divorce laws

 

[Donald J Trump]

Divorce your wife over a job at a company that probably will be obsolete in 10 years brehs
Get mad when your wife tells you the realest shyt that your scary ass relatives refused to say brehs
Be small minded brehs

 

[TRUEST]

Weak nikka shyt.


She hurt your feelings so you disrespect VOWS and end a MARRIAGE?
She didn't support you at one time in your life.

My parents didn't support me when I dropped out of high school for two weeks cuz I was sure I didn't need a diploma to be a singer ..but that was 8th grade nikka.

nah let him be arrogant. make all the money he wants and have some b1tch turn around and take it all from him.

 

[Rarely-Wrong Liggins]

So he should continue to be with someone he doesn't love anymore because the Coli says so?

If a woman came on here talking about she doesn't love her husband anymore but won't divorce him and instead will cheat on him it'd be like turning over a hornet's nest. Be unhappy brehs.