I’m sorry, all I see is a walking stereotype.
Did he say he has THREE “babymamas” ?!
Had a young lady from a nice structured background— which everyone says is the only type of woman you should be serious with— knocked her up, then cheated and knocked up the other woman? So… “ghetto twins” ?
I’m sure her father warned her about him, and she wanted to believe in him and overlook what everyone saw. And now look what that got her.
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We can talk about women being irresponsible and sleeping with the wrong men, but where is the criticism for men like this? No sexual disciple at all. 3 children in 3 different households and he thinks money is what causes issues in relationships. Well, dysfunction and lack of structure causes issues in children. How are they all supposed to have/experience a full-time dad?
He come from dysfunctional background tho, Im sure he got heat from her family because they tried to speak sense into her and when they saw that wasnt working they tried to put heat on him in some ways to shoo him away, but she probably was attracted to his defiance and wanted the bad boy.. At end of day its HER job to protect her womb, her family did the best they could from the sounds of it but she didnt care..
Why would there be criticism from men when men say hey stay away from this dude they get called lame or whatever, Its her womb, even if she did alllll that and came out no one would really say anything, now she looking up ciara prayer.. She looks good enough and has pedigree where she still got paths to victory so not all is lost. But to criticize the proverbial "bad apple" seems weird, you cant shame a rebel without a cause, same way you cant turn a hoe to house wife.
All you can do is point it out to the other party and say you see that red flag, thats like a bright colored poisonous animal in wild, the bright colors mean something, like when someone tats they face. The problem is some people ARE DRAWN TO THAT, lol.. They have to live and learn, now she on IG tryna give women cautionary advisory, which they will ignore also, lol..