Gender Neutral Parenting: Why We're Raising Our Son Neither Boy Or Girl: Lisa Price, 23

[Slystallion]

https://xdress.com/

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how many of you guys would do this ad if you had a million dollar a year modeling contract though?

 

[The Real]

I just don't agree with that shyt. If the child has doubts on their own then that's one thing, but lettin him play with dolls, wear makeup and dresses, I'm sorry but that shyt is terrible to me. If he gets punked in school for having girly tendencies then the parents are gonna cry about bullying n shyt when they could of just got him a football, video games, and some action figures and let him decide for himself that he's a girl.

Again, bruh, this isn't actually about him deciding whether he's a boy or a girl. He is a boy, according to himself and the parents. It's just about them letting him do things that are stereotypically associated with girls. That's the difference between sex, which is biology/physiology and gender, which is the cultural definition of behaviors associated with that biology. For example, a boy liking the color pink doesn't mean he thinks he's a girl, will be gay when he gets older, or anything else. It's just a gendered expectation of our time and place that pink is feminine. And like other cultural norms of gender, that can be changed, which is why Cam'ron was able to start the trend of men wearing pink. If the parents are to be believed, they are just letting him do what he wants as far as preferences for what to wear, what toys to have, etc.

I agree there is a strong possibility he could get bullied in school, but with some of these liberal schools these days, you never know.

 

[2Quik4UHoes]

how many of you guys would do this ad if you had a million dollar a year modeling contract though?

Money isn't omnipotent or some magical ambrosia that gives you superpowers it's just a tool, so it's best to not be a tool for it.

 

[Slystallion]

honestly as a kid your not sexual at all...I don't believe people are born gay but it can become a learned behavior or preference as they go through puberty and mature

Case in point when I was young I didn't think sexually but when I saw a pretty girl my heart would start beating a certain way and I was attracted to a girl's face...I didn't think about ass until later on in my teen years where I became attracted to the curvature and it was a preference of mine for a girl not to be flat assed

Also most of us wouldn't be attracted to armpit hair on a girl and probably would not want to have sex with her because it would be a turn off but for most of history females had armpit hair and men reproduced fine with them

At one point it was a part of greek culture for men to have sex with men as a symbol of eliteness and power...i doubt they were born that way but it was cultural...what about bi-sexual people? My guess is that at some point early on something influenced gay people to be attracted to the same sex and they ended up preferring it

 

[2Quik4UHoes]

Again, bruh, this isn't actually about him deciding whether he's a boy or a girl. He is a boy, according to himself and the parents. It's just about them letting him do things that are stereotypically associated with girls. That's the difference between sex, which is biology/physiology and gender, which is the cultural definition of behaviors associated with that biology. For example, a boy liking the color pink doesn't mean he thinks he's a girl, will be gay when he gets older, or anything else. It's just a gendered expectation of our time and place that pink is feminine. And like other cultural norms of gender, that can be changed, which is why Cam'ron was able to start the trend of men wearing pink. If the parents are to be believed, they are just letting him do what he wants as far as preferences for what to wear, what toys to have, etc.

I agree there is a strong possibility he could get bullied in school, but with some of these liberal schools these days, you never know.

I know what you meant the first time, I just think those are things kids shouldn't even be thinking about. If he identifies as a boy, and his parents identify him as a boy, what purpose does it serve to be like "Oh, it's ok if our son wears lipstick who cares?" that shyt makes no damn sense to me. My issue is that in this society gender roles tie in very closely with your sex, so things like wearing pink is one thing but if he suddenly decides he likes capri pants, halter tops, and lip gloss that's a much huger step in changing what their expectation is of their boy. Their son isn't in a vacuum, he might wear a female outfit like that and still think of himself as a boy but who the fukk else will? To me, rigidity in regards to gender is totally fine if it's a kid. If we're talkin bout someone goin through puberty and not wanting to identify by traditional gender norms that's fine. Little kids don't even need to be gettin into shyt like this until their older, let him at least take sex ed or something. Don't matter what weirdos want to think, it's not normal for a boy who identifies as a boy to be allowed to fukk with girly shyt.

lol, it's a 99.9% possibility he'll be bullied too, if its a liberal school then the gay crusade would spawn out of marshmallows and glitter to have a bytchfest about it.

 

[Dafunkdoc_Unlimited]

@charmander I'm not putting that shyt in spoilers because they got a little boy walking around in girl's clothing like it's acceptable. Take that neg bullshyt elsewhere. This is what they're trying to foist off on us and I'm gonna make sure every red-blooded male sees this for the fukkery it is.

Don't get mad at me because your generation is on some bullshyt. Be mad at your parents and Libtards for thinking this is 'okay'.

 

[Dafunkdoc_Unlimited]

LOL @ dudes trying to justify this bullshyt...........​

 

[The Real]

I know what you meant the first time, I just think those are things kids shouldn't even be thinking about. If he identifies as a boy, and his parents identify him as a boy, what purpose does it serve to be like "Oh, it's ok if our son wears lipstick who cares?" that shyt makes no damn sense to me. My issue is that in this society gender roles tie in very closely with your sex, so things like wearing pink is one thing but if he suddenly decides he likes capri pants, halter tops, and lip gloss that's a much huger step in changing what their expectation is of their boy. Their son isn't in a vacuum, he might wear a female outfit like that and still think of himself as a boy but who the fukk else will? To me, rigidity in regards to gender is totally fine if it's a kid. If we're talkin bout someone goin through puberty and not wanting to identify by traditional gender norms that's fine. Little kids don't even need to be gettin into shyt like this until their older, let him at least take sex ed or something. Don't matter what weirdos want to think, it's not normal for a boy who identifies as a boy to be allowed to fukk with girly shyt.

lol, it's a 99.9% possibility he'll be bullied too, if its a liberal school then the gay crusade would spawn out of marshmallows and glitter to have a bytchfest about it.

I thought you did but I brought it up again because you mentioned the kid thinking he was a boy/girl.

Gender ties in with sex in pretty much every society, it's just that they have different norms for what is masculine or feminine. For example, in Russia, lighter shades of blue are considered feminine.

As for the rest of your post, yeah, it's a difficult issue. In an ideal situation, I wouldn't really care what kids do on that front because I don't think it will affect their sex or sexual orientation at all, and for most of them it will just be a phase, but the bullying and intolerance will obviously have a serious effect, so parents have to watch out for that in our society right now.

 

[Dafunkdoc_Unlimited]

 

[2Quik4UHoes]

I thought you did but I brought it up again because you mentioned the kid thinking he was a boy/girl.

Gender ties in with sex in pretty much every society, it's just that they have different norms for what is masculine or feminine. For example, in Russia, lighter shades of blue are considered feminine.

As for the rest of your post, yeah, it's a difficult issue. In an ideal situation, I wouldn't really care what kids do on that front because I don't think it will affect their sex or sexual orientation at all, and for most of them it will just be a phase, but the bullying and intolerance will obviously have a serious effect, so parents have to watch out for that in our society right now.

That's the main issue for me, it's all too easy to be weirded out by the very idea of what these parents are doing as is. All that verbal and possibly physical abuse that their son would be at risk to makes them highly irresponsible to me. It's shyt like that that can fukk a kid up long term, maybe this kids parents want to be fukked up individuals but I wouldn't want my son to go out like that cuz I was too weak to say no when it's needed. It's just certain lines kids don't need to cross, if it's a teen then whatever they old enough to know about sex so it's at least a bit more acceptable. But this kinda shyt to me is like giving your own child a shytty head start in their social environment, we were all kids once and we know fitting in was important. I'm not saying they even got to be a follower but shyt at least follow some of the norms, gotta be a parent not a friend.

 

[360crazy]

That's the main issue for me, it's all too easy to be weirded out by the very idea of what these parents are doing as is. All that verbal and possibly physical abuse that their son would be at risk to makes them highly irresponsible to me. It's shyt like that that can fukk a kid up long term, maybe this kids parents want to be fukked up individuals but I wouldn't want my son to go out like that cuz I was too weak to say no when it's needed. It's just certain lines kids don't need to cross, if it's a teen then whatever they old enough to know about sex so it's at least a bit more acceptable. But this kinda shyt to me is like giving your own child a shytty head start in their social environment, we were all kids once and we know fitting in was important. I'm not saying they even got to be a follower but shyt at least follow some of the norms, gotta be a parent not a friend.

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fukk a norm. Norms are not what's up.

 

[Dafunkdoc_Unlimited]

 

[360crazy]

@charmander I'm not putting that shyt in spoilers because they got a little boy walking around in girl's clothing like it's acceptable. Take that neg bullshyt elsewhere. This is what they're trying to foist off on us and I'm gonna make sure every red-blooded male sees this for the fukkery it is.

Don't get mad at me because your generation is on some bullshyt. Be mad at your parents and Libtards for thinking this is 'okay'.

Ummm i can't find n ething objectively wrong.

 

[the cac mamba]

wow

this is even more offensive than telling your kid that hes born indebted to a space god wholl send him to hell if he doest obey him

 

[Dafunkdoc_Unlimited]

Ummm i can't find n ething objectively wrong.

What you do in the privacy of your own home is your business. You come outside, then we got problems.......