Most of these guys don't have any gay people they can actually call friends. IF they did they would realize how much of a trivial distraction issue this is.
Either way - the constitutional right to same-sex marriage hasn't been changed.. that is the real debate, it's that fact that leaves them response-less when you ask them for real thoughts on the matter.
However, these two decisions open the door wide open for Obama. HA- I dare him to show how transparent he is with this shyt. If he falls for this trap and goes for the executive decisions on this issue - BUT DIDN'T address (or was on the wrong side) of real issues like Privacy rights and voting, and foreign aid, and foreign military aid to conflicts, and healthcare, and etc etc etc... then gottdamn it. it's over for us.