A lot of people from all walks of life never learn, or are essentially taught to have unhealthy, dysfunctional, toxic relationships, that in many instances are physically and physically abusive. Someone coming from the absolute lowest socioeconomic parts of Chicago will learn all the wrong ways to love, and be loved. This idea of "love" is also reinforced through music, media, social media, and it becomes very difficult to separate healthy from unhealthy, when you are modeling your behavior on unhealthy behavior.