LmaoooooooooThat's not a woman, that's a 15 year old girl, she responded in the comments.
nikka must not be getting any play, nikkas who make threads like these never do.you really starting to piss me off.
Do you? You act as if there aren't professionals that think this way.
Black professionals can be full of themselves especially if they came from meager beginnings.
Some of them will replace a woman at the drop of a dime.
I'm a very direct person. Rarely hold things in until it's a big blow up. My girlfriend's have always understood my personality type is not condusive to conflict. I don't say anything foul in the moment..I sound like a simp because I understand that women are emotional? That most women, hell, all women have done or said something in the heat of the moment that they didn't necessarily mean?
You've never got into an argument with your girl/woman where's she's clearly crying and distraught and says "fine, leave then if you wanna go "
But clearly doesn't mean that?
You never got into with your girl and said some foul shyt that you clearly didn't mean? Out of anger?
None of this has ever happened to you?
I'm not speaking on the mentality of Black professionals. The idea that from the courting phase to the longterm status, you can go without ever experiencing coded language from your woman, loss of passion at times or having any type of arguments is something I'd expect someone who isn't experienced to say.
There is not a woman alive who would NEVER disrespect her man.
Being scared to play games =/= never playing games
You can be 100% down for a dude and still be emotional.
Women are human beings too. And we should expect them to be.
i have relatives married for 50 years that get into it, but at the end of the night they're together. Relationships are more than what you say, it's what you do.
You could have a girl that says all the right things, but there's a difference between saying and doing.
Girl who plays games but is there when shyt gets real > girl who's serious all the time but isn't ride or die.
I'm a very direct person. Rarely hold things in until it's a big blow up. My girlfriend's have always understood my personality type is not condusive to conflict. I don't say anything foul in the moment..
Last girl I dated kinda made an offhand comment about my dad and got dropped with the quickness. No coming back from that. Believe it or not we don't all play stupid games. I've never started a relationship chasing a girl and fighting to hold on to her. If the feelings ain't mutual I don't want it so there isn't some power struggle where your constantly tryna fight to keep ya mate.
Currently been seeing someone for a year and it's been smooth as fukk. We both direct with each other and don't let problems simmer. My end goal isn't even marriage man. I'm doing quite well just being care free. From a youngin my motto was to never deal with head cases. You seem to entertain such behaviour. I wouldn't even hold a girl like that down in any form
My girl making a late breakfast/brunch as you argue with me about girls arguingI don't know where you nikkas live where all these perfect, never at fault women are around
Long term relationships with no arguments and no disrespect from eachother side, ever.
Serious Relationships where everything is all the time
I've seen it happen but only when there is a very large social-economic gap between both partners.
I don't really count this as a healthy relationship though.
nikka I'm engaged for oneMy girl making a late breakfast/brunch as you argue with me about girls arguing
No disrespect here. You are absurdly trying to push this idea that it's normal to be disrespected by ya mate. The reality is you accept such trifling juvenile partners as acceptable. I know those types, I don't date em, you do and that's your whole problem.
Threadstarter is just another egotistical professional with a little self-hate mixed in.
l've seen worse though.
Of course the women in real life don't backtalk professionals like they would the average black man.
I don't see where you are drawing these assumptions from.
you really starting to piss me off.
Who hurt you breh?
All these posts are just screaming with pain
That's right, just dance the pain awayNobody