fukk buddies catching feelings and goin' fukkin' psycho unappreciation thread

[EnzoG]

Agreed, but she made it obvious this morning in the early AM and when it didn't go that way, bish just flipped instead of just going, "Well, see ya" .
A chick turning down marriage proposals all willy-nilly and maintains that she's not looking for a relationship for a whole year and change is kinda hard to gauge, especially when you're not around her like a boyfriend would be. We just kicked it, hung out and were real cool and comfortable. She even attempted to date a guy, but she just wasn't feeling that either. Just weird all around, tbh




Both of our intents were mutual until they weren't, and it ended. I tried to give her advise as a friend (on whether or not to get back with her ex), not realizing that she asked me for other reasons. Even if she was straight up and asked me what she wanted to know, "Where is this going?", she woulda got a real answer that she obviously didn't want which was, "I'm not looking for a girlfriend and you know that"

Maybe if I woulda been demonic and told her what she wanted to hear, I coulda got some 3 am p*ssy and some Belgian waffles instead of sitting in my truck, cold, worrying about getting my keys back so I could get to class to take my test

what does this girl look like and where is she from?

 

[AkaDemiK]

WWID

what would Ike do

 

[Steve Piffler]

Females BEGIN to mature earlier but they don't mature as much as we do in the long run. They start of at a sprint at puberty but we jog through, catch them, and overlap them.

beautifully worded breh

 

[Uncle Kingpin]

Crazy bytches are my specialty. You got to hit em with the mirror effect. Repeat her crazy back. Lets try this my way -


Should I get back with my ex?
I dont know, should I get back w my ex too?
Get out!
You get out!
it's my house
Get out of your house




And just like that, she's thinking your crazy and she's gonna cut you off

 

[Hacksaw Jim Thuggin]

Right now I'm outside in my truck, cold, with a wet coat on, no heat and I got an exam on kinematics in a few hours (I'm clinging on a C )

Here's the story on how I got to this point..........




So I'm at ol' girl's place and we kickin it. She's on lap, feedin' me a joint, life is good then......then it happens

Her: "My ex said he wants to get back together "

Me: "Oh word?"

Her: "Yeah, but I don't know; What do you feel about it"


Now before I continue, let's remember that first, I was / am blazed, secondly, before me and her started fukkin' at the beginning of last year, her ex had just proposed and she said no. He's 32, decent job and she's a student, 23, and after what just happened, she's probably psychotic. Back to the part where I fukk up

Clueless ass Me: "If you have any kind of feelings for him, just give him a chance this time and tell him to take things slow"



She hops off my lap, walked in her kitchen, comes back stands in front of the tv dead ass silent, then......

Her: "Man, you know what? Just get the fukk out"

Me: ......................

I tried to say something, but she wasn't tryna hear shyt, so I get up and walk towards the door, still high, then outta nowhere, her big ass philosophy book flies past my head goin' bout 80 mph.... then I sobered up

I was in such a rush to get fukk out that I forgot to grab my coat and ma damn keys

I texted her from out here that I needed my shyt, so she went upstairs, opened the window, and threw my coat out on the cold wet ass ground into a puddle but she still has the keys to my truck.........that was 2 hours ago brehs and I'm still out here.


The only reason I'm not outside in the cold ass rain was because I used the keypad to unlock the doors

Now I could be an idiot and start tryna kick the door in, cussin' , and actin' like an emotional ass nikka, but:

- this is a nice white neighborhood
- there's a white sorority house across the street, full of white girls
- this is South Caclina with South Caclina police
-I'm an unarmed nikka that smells like a weed factory
- This bytch is so pissed off right now that I truly think she'd tell the police that she doesn't know me and I'm trying to rape her or some shyt




Edit: I started writing this around 5 am but my hands were shaking because of the cold and making a thread on TheColi on an cellphone that keeps auto correcting my shyt got annoying, so I said fukk it. My homie finally woke up, answered my call, and now I'm at his crib because that loon still has my keys. She's actin' like I don't know she has classes today

you nikkas will learn one day to be drama free....

 

[Rawtid]

Both of our intents were mutual until they weren't, and it ended. I tried to give her advise as a friend (on whether or not to get back with her ex), not realizing that she asked me for other reasons. Even if she was straight up and asked me what she wanted to know, "Where is this going?", she woulda got a real answer that she obviously didn't want which was, "I'm not looking for a girlfriend and you know that"

Maybe if I woulda been demonic and told her what she wanted to hear, I coulda got some 3 am p*ssy and some Belgian waffles instead of sitting in my truck, cold, worrying about getting my keys back so I could get to class to take my test

You still would have been put out having barely survived a text book being thrown at your head.

 

[Jesus]

u fukked up by under estimating women emotions

u didnt learn nothing from steve mcnair....never get comfortable at a jumpoff home bro.....smash with ya shyt on...and keep all ur processions on u


going over their for sex should be treated like a drug transaction....in and out

 

[El Cocodrilo]

Right now I'm outside in my truck, cold, with a wet coat on, no heat and I got an exam on kinematics in a few hours (I'm clinging on a C )

Here's the story on how I got to this point..........




So I'm at ol' girl's place and we kickin it. She's on lap, feedin' me a joint, life is good then......then it happens

Her: "My ex said he wants to get back together "

Me: "Oh word?"

Her: "Yeah, but I don't know; What do you feel about it"


Now before I continue, let's remember that first, I was / am blazed, secondly, before me and her started fukkin' at the beginning of last year, her ex had just proposed and she said no. He's 32, decent job and she's a student, 23, and after what just happened, she's probably psychotic. Back to the part where I fukk up

Something like this happened to me, but when she asked me what I thought she should do I told her "Oh shyt I left something at my crib! brb!"

And disappeared for a month.


This will only work with a girl that won't go full psycho and hunt you down.

 

[Hacksaw Jim Thuggin]

The notion of an women being "used" when they choose to have no string relationship is flawed, IMHO

Adults take responsibility for their feelings and affairs (well, we're expected to, at least), so unless women aren't adults and can't be taken at thier word and unable to think for themselves when it comes to their sex lives, I don't see where the "used" part comes into play in these types of situations

It's already been established that these things don't last forever, but when it's over and you don't get your way, playing the victim, throwing books and refusing to give a nikka back his keys is childish and demonic

breh...

youre still young so let me tell you something....ima old nikka you can take heed or not its up to you...

its very rare that a woman will give her body up and be able to keep it casual...can some women do it? yep....but the majority cant...as evidenced by your situation here and countless others i know youve heard stories about....

FWB almost never works out for this very reason...

men think logically...and logically you did the right thing you were up front and honest ...problem is everything with women is how they feel......and sometimes how they feel isnt logical at all...case and point.

i hope you learned a lesson here.

 

[Serious]

u fukked up by under estimating women emotions

u didnt learn nothing from steve mcnair....never get comfortable at a jumpoff home bro.....smash with ya shyt on...and keep all ur processions on u


going over their for sex should be treated like a drug transaction....in and out

Dawg this is almost quotable...

It's nearly impossible to sleep with most women and not expect them to form emotional attachment and catch feelings for you. When it gets to the point where she wants to go steady and meet the family, no matter how good the sex was or how well you two got along, if youre not going to commit to her, it's time to leave it alone.


Some may pretend that they're cool with it after they let it be known, but fooling around with a chick who has made it obvious she wants more is a recipe for disaster and nothing but a headache.

 

[Doin2Much Williams]

Stop messing with bird brain chicks.. She is 23, she should be able to use her words instead of resorting to violence.

Byrd brain chicks... for byrd brain bastids.



Byrds of feather...



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[Donald J Trump]

Man lemme run this lil story about this bytch i used to fukk with

Ok so we were having an argument and she went too far, she was fine but aint no bytch gone disrespect my mind like that.... She made a comment along the lines of "your fukkin loser father couldn't keep a relationship together and you can't either!". When I was around 15, my parents got divorced and fought for custody. My dad wanted me and my brother because he was attached to us, which was understandable. My mom wanted us just to spite my dad, which is common with women smh. Anyways, She won, and my dad kinda lost it ever since.

But anyways shyt got too far for me. I had never, EVER hit a girl before, but it happened so fast I didn't even know I did it. I just did that shyt yo

Basically, I cocked back, and stuck that shyt straight into her nose. Her nose was all fukked up dog, I went too far . I think I must of broken a bunch of cartilage or something because blood shot out of both her nostrils, got all over me, got all over the floor. She staggered backwards, hit her head hard enough on the wall to leave a dent, and slumped down....and dazed

We were both stunned for about 10 seconds before she started crying hysterically and ran into my room and locked the door. So I went to wash my hands, and while I was in the bathroom I heard her run out of the house and take off in her car. She didn't go the cops or anything.:agh: So later I went home and broke down in tears.. My mom came in the room and when she heard about the story she got scared and said your moving with your auntie and uncle in bel air. I whistled for a cab and when it came near the license plate said fresh and had dice in the mirror. If anything I can say this cab is rare But I thought 'Now forget it' - 'Yo homes to Bel Air'

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[Turbulent]

Sounds like the typical chic to me, wants what isn't being offered, shyts mad confusing brehs

Like OP said, if she wanted a serious relationship with a strong commitment she had that with her ex, and has the option of regaining that with him. Instead she passes.

In dealing with the OP, he is giving her what she supposedly wants, FWB etc... but then when he treats it for what it is she doesn't want that either...


She is 23, though, and what I am learning is, although they say females mature earlier than males, I'm starting to think the majority of these chics don't actually mature until they are about 30.

females do mature at a faster rate than men. but they reach their maturity plateau around 23-26. after that, they're pretty much set in their ways for life unless something traumatic happens.

 

[Turbulent]

The notion of an women being "used" when they choose to have no string relationship is flawed, IMHO

Adults take responsibility for their feelings and affairs (well, we're expected to, at least), so unless women aren't adults and can't be taken at thier word and unable to think for themselves when it comes to their sex lives, I don't see where the "used" part comes into play in these types of situations

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[KinksandCoils]

this is what happens when you only have sex with a person and dont truly get to know them. you lost breh get your damn keys and stop letting her handle you