Former Football player cries about wives leaving athletes after their career is over

cobra

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That only matters for presidents... in the USA at least.


Christiano Ronaldo literally and surrogate babies and was single until a few years back... and he still had a shyt ton of endorsements.

KD is one of the more popular players despite not having a wife
even ronaldo got married as he approached 35

KD will never be the face of a brand
 

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So you think a womans profession will define her morals and ethics when she gets introduced to the lifestyle? The naivety is real breh, and brehs need to chill with the theoretical babble.

As I have said before, marriage is a gamble. No matter what, in a divorce you can still be financially stung, but marry a lawyer brehs. As the average salary of a lawyer cannot even compare to a professional athlete that can earn six figures in a month. You think the judge is going to go easy on you because you married a doctor?

Truth is most women that wants kids would quit their 9 - 5 if they knew their husband was making that kind of money. Regardless if she was a nurse or a doctor.

Did I mention judges or even morals in my post? I'm talking about dating people who have a purpose and passion in life. Everything is a gamble but you know what? The odds are better for this than dating/marrying some Instagram "model" who hasn't worked since she quit her first retail job at 18. A very large percentage of ballers find their women off social media or at clubs. That's fine if you just want to smash chicks, but these dudes are often weirdos who want to date a chick just because she is nice to him. They're lost causes. The smart dudes would seek out chicks who have a career and/or passion that guides their life. Sure there are some gold diggers in every corner but there would be fewer in that segment.
 

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Did I mention judges or even morals in my post? I'm talking about dating people who have a purpose and passion in life. Everything is a gamble but you know what? The odds are better for this than dating/marrying some Instagram "model" who hasn't worked since she quit her first retail job at 18. A very large percentage of ballers find their women off social media or at clubs. That's fine if you just want to smash chicks, but these dudes are often weirdos who want to date a chick just because she is nice to him. They're lost causes. The smart dudes would seek out chicks who have a career and/or passion that guides their life. Sure there are some gold diggers in every corner but there would be fewer in that segment.
Exactly, that guy is being obtuse.

Yes, a chick with a career can still quit her job, leech on you, and fukk you over.

But the odds are virtually guaranteed with some random bum chick that just happens to be pretty and feminine. (Let's be real, these instagram "models" are mostly bums.)
 

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Even if she has her own shyt, you are still taking a risk when you get married, and you become the provider.
That last part is the risk. If YOU become the PROVIDER.

The reason so many men get finessed is because they've been told it's masculine to choose a dependent woman. The knock on effect is there's zero incentive for her to bring anything to the table. Marriage is a partnership, a fusing of resources and mixing of families. If you are a baller and you choose a broke insta-thot from a broken home then you're playing a dangerous game. She correctly recognizes you as a come-up and will move accordingly. If yall divorce, she will need your money to maintain the standard of living you introduced her to.

Now if you're a baller and you meet a pediatrician who serves on the board of one or more companies, has a tight social circle who gives her constructive criticism and good values, has hobbies and interests she can enjoy completely on her own without an audience or entourage and has built something for herself, she's bringing all of those good resources into your life and sharing them with you. If ya'll split up, she wont NEED your money since she's already got assets and everything she needs to be straight before she met you and only grew in prestige and wealth since being married to you. Iron sharpens iron.
 

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Case example #210,201 of why we need to change divorce laws.

Women aren't "sacrificing their careers". A lot of them (NOT ALL) marry for the comeup. A lot marry for the lifestyle and protection, with the intention that they'll never have to work.

That's why some of these women also try hard to have a baby, so they can be locked in for 18 years with free checks.

Thats why some don't remarry afterwards: so they can still get support and alimony. It's venomous.

This is why I hate when women play coy around this issue and get offended like as if it doesn't happen. Not only are y'all being full of shyt. You're doing a disservice to women who actually are victims of bad marriages. Because they exist and deserve to be recognized .

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They don't fall in love with the man. They fall in love with the lifestyle.

You're on remedial status if youre wealthy and famous and wife a woman that doesn't already have her own business with people working for her and tons of cash on her own. George Clooney is the prime example of how you should move when you're famous and or wealthy. Refuse to marry until its to someone with a high net worth, self motivation, and shared values

Why is she married to you if she makes her own money? Women who have too much independence can leave you at the snap of a finger.
 
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