First week dating one of my coworker ; ask me anything

[Pay Your Bills]

Why my questions not being answered

Calm down i didn't saw your post

fukked in the office?
No and i don't know how it's possible to fukk at work, at least where i work that's impossible

How long did you chase her before she gave in?
I didn't chase her, i don't flirt with female colleague at all, she's the one who invited me to go out.

Do you have an escape plan in case she turns crazy?
She's not crazy at all, i'm not saying she's perfect but she has a very good personality, very down to earth and she's not faking, that's what i like about her.

Do yall instant message / text throughout the day even though yall avoid communication face to face?
No text and i'm not avoiding conversation, we just don't hold hands or kiss and i try to not lunch with her alone, other than that yes we talk.

 

[Amestafuu (Emeritus)]

No fam she's cool, she's very quiet and not dramatic, she want as me to keep things quiet. I know her for quite a year now and i studied very carefully her profile, i wouldn't have take the chance if i knew there was a risk.

breh you won't know who she is and what she is capable of fully is until y'all break up. That's when you get to see the whole person.

 

[4-Rin]

Is she a PAWG? What sort of work do you do?

 

[Pay Your Bills]

Interesting thread. I've been checking out some of my coworkers and would date a few. My questions:

Are you in the same department?
Yes, her office is not far away from mine

How did you meet? Outside of work?
First time we've met outside of work was after the Christmas party at work, we decided to stay a little bit longer after everyone was gone and chat for about a hour, that's when i knew she was interested cause she was asking me a bunch of personal, trying to find out if i have a girlfriend, how old i was and etc...so we became more comfortable after that and we started to go out more often with friends at first and only the two of us after a couple of times.

How long did you two know each other before you two decided to take it to the next level?
A couple of months

Is risking your job worth it? What do you do?
I'm not risking my job at all, like i said even if we broke up nothing is going to happen

 

[Pay Your Bills]

Is she a PAWG? What sort of work do you do?

I don't date white girl and i would never date one at work no she's Indian, and i'm a intern CPA.

 

[Rell Lauren]

Didn't answer my last question. What do you do? While people do date and get married to coworkers, your field would play a role.

 

[Rell Lauren]

I don't date white girl and i would never date one at work no she's Indian, and i'm a intern CPA.

You're an intern. That explains it.

 

[Pay Your Bills]

You're an intern. That explains it.

Explain what ?

 

[CreepyMcCreeperson]

Do you have other employment lined up for the "me too" moment?

 

[4-Rin]

I don't date white girl and i would never date one at work no she's Indian, and i'm a intern CPA.

Interns date each other all the time. Even where I work now they pairing up. No harm there.

 

[Pay Your Bills]

Interns date each other all the time. Even where I work now they pairing up. No harm there.

No she's not a intern, she's a accounting tech

 

[Rell Lauren]

Explain what ?

Interns typically walk around with an aura of invincibility and naivety. Associates and up don't act the way you've been posting. As an intern you're not guaranteed anything.

 

[4-Rin]

No she's not a intern, she's a accounting tech

How old is she? Did you land a suga momma
You can finesse this situation. She's the one that should be worried not you

 

[Pay Your Bills]

Interns typically walk around with an aura of invincibility and naivety. Associates and up don't act the way you've been posting. As an intern you're not guaranteed anything.

No fam you're wrong, my position is guarantee, i don't want to brag but i'm one of the best and they don't hire a intern if they don't keep him anyway, that's not how things work. If they don't fire you after one year, you're job is already secure.

 

[Pay Your Bills]

How old is she? Did you land a suga momma
You can finesse this situation. She's the one that should be worried not you

Tech don't earn that much, their salary limit is 55-60k, so for now she's making more but once i become CPA i should earn more in less than 2 years after my accreditation.