What don't you understand.
That verbalising that shyt, for the world to see at that, is normal to you is a sign than you grew up in a dysfunctional environment.
The idea of shielding your child from certain views and not showing an acceptance of those views is alien towards.
The implications of her words is that if he wasn't a successful football player, he wouldn't her best blessing, he'd just be a disappointment. On consideration she might not pick those words, but therein lies the problem. When comes to black men, that consideration isn't given and lost souls like you are so starved of affection that you can't comprehend how fukked up it is.