Real talk the dating game is messed up...
I can't speak about the men because I'm a straight male but since I've been dating a lot of these younger women don't have any personality. I went out on dates with multiple women and it felt like I was talking to the same person.
"I'm trying to get this bag.....I'm independent.....I like to travel...I'm trying to be a influencer, etc" I'm like are you trying date or are you trying to trend? All they want to do is go to a fancy restaurant or some kind of exciting outing just so they could take pics for the gram or how they say it "I know my worth so a guy should take me to...." and I already know if I say naw I'm not taking you to xyz I'm gonna get hit with "well if you're broke just say that"
The crazy thing though is that these women were into me but social media really has messed the game up. When these women get around a guy that's actually on his purpose they don't know how to act
The art of getting to know someone organically is slowly dying because of the power of social media