Fine black woman gets caught on imaginary date

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Real talk the dating game is messed up...

I can't speak about the men because I'm a straight male but since I've been dating a lot of these younger women don't have any personality. I went out on dates with multiple women and it felt like I was talking to the same person. "I'm trying to get this bag.....I'm independent.....I like to travel...I'm trying to be a influencer, etc" I'm like are you trying date or are you trying to trend? All they want to do is go to a fancy restaurant or some kind of exciting outing just so they could take pics for the gram or how they say it "I know my worth so a guy should take me to...." and I already know if I say naw I'm not taking you to xyz I'm gonna get hit with "well if you're broke just say that"😂

The crazy thing though is that these women were into me but social media really has messed the game up. When these women get around a guy that's actually on his purpose they don't know how to act

The art of getting to know someone organically is slowly dying because of the power of social media
..and no mention of getting with a man and having a healthy relationship that can lead to something.
 

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Real talk the dating game is messed up...

I can't speak about the men because I'm a straight male but since I've been dating a lot of these younger women don't have any personality. I went out on dates with multiple women and it felt like I was talking to the same person. "I'm trying to get this bag.....I'm independent.....I like to travel...I'm trying to be a influencer, etc" I'm like are you trying date or are you trying to trend? All they want to do is go to a fancy restaurant or some kind of exciting outing just so they could take pics for the gram or how they say it "I know my worth so a guy should take me to...." and I already know if I say naw I'm not taking you to xyz I'm gonna get hit with "well if you're broke just say that"😂

The crazy thing though is that these women were into me but social media really has messed the game up. When these women get around a guy that's actually on his purpose they don't know how to act

The art of getting to know someone organically is slowly dying because of the power of social media
A lot of the brehs I work with say the same thing. :whoo:

Makes me glad I've got someone because it sounds scary out there. :hubie:
 
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Y’all are always making fun of someone looks on this site knowing you look like Jabba the Hutt. Just because she is mediocre to you she apparently doesn’t deserve to go on two simple dates. GOD bless the women that deal with you.


chile..... you should have seen a recent thread on here where some girl on tik tok was posting men from dating apps that they considered ugle. thecoli brehs were is shambles! oop!

 

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Real talk the dating game is messed up...

I can't speak about the men because I'm a straight male but since I've been dating a lot of these younger women don't have any personality. I went out on dates with multiple women and it felt like I was talking to the same person. "I'm trying to get this bag.....I'm independent.....I like to travel...I'm trying to be a influencer, etc" I'm like are you trying date or are you trying to trend? All they want to do is go to a fancy restaurant or some kind of exciting outing just so they could take pics for the gram or how they say it "I know my worth so a guy should take me to...." and I already know if I say naw I'm not taking you to xyz I'm gonna get hit with "well if you're broke just say that"😂

The crazy thing though is that these women were into me but social media really has messed the game up. When these women get around a guy that's actually on his purpose they don't know how to act

The art of getting to know someone organically is slowly dying because of the power of social media
Most women are horrible at dating and a surprisingly large amount have zero personality and/or nothing of value to offer besides p*ssy.
 

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I have an acquaintance who does this. She goes viral on tiktok semi-regularly from videos about the things her man says to her, but she's been single as long as I've known her. Posting clips from dates she's supposedly on or posting outfits she's wearing for those dates but it's obvious she's there by herself. It's weird but harmless and she's built a following from it so :ehh:
 
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