Fiance Violated (raped) at Party... What would you do?

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Georgia said that the DA had the rape kit info and that they will prosecute at the next available time....


We alll know how backed up the systems are across the country... I'm not saying that this woman isn't wrong.. I'm just saying that if she "was"
roofied.... that would be a tragedy.


But yeah... the fact that she lied gets her some fukkery... but rape tho?
 

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Cold to say.. My buddy believes that she was raped... I didnt' tell him that I think she's lying trying to cover it.


It's sad how things work.
Even if she was raped, her having dudes over in the first place was reason enough to dump her.

But just on a human and friendship level, its pretty cruel to leave someone right after something traumatic like this happens to them. Assuming she did get raped. I don't think there's any worse violation you can do to anyone than to violate them sexually. And since they were engaged they obviously were very close and have probably shared almost everything together emotionally. I would break up with her (maybe not to her face but definitely would emotionally cut ties) but I would help her get through the therapy and once she was mentally in a better space then tell her I'm moving on. :yeshrug:

Now that I read that back that may be more cruel than just dumping her outright. :heh:
 

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If she really was roofied, and reported the rape to the police then the co worker would be locked up right now.

Either way she need to be dropped not for getting raped but for throwing a party and inviting men over to drink when she was clearly asked not to.

Yep.

He did what he was supposed to as a man to protect their relationship, by putting his foot down n saying no nikkas allowed.

The energy of a roomful of drinking women vs a roomful of men and women that are saucy is so different that he had every right to be like nope.

And then apparently she did it anyways, and now had a traumatic experience occur.

If that's the truth.

I'd dump her just because while I was making moves to protect us, she was doing whatever she wanted.

Can't trust her to put US first means I can't trust her at all.

Tell your boy to find a woman who's worth the commitment, cuz she ain't it.
 

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... that's the shyt that got me.. or was she trying to protect her man.
I think she know the dude would try to kill the rapist so she's protecting her man.

Unfortunately, it's the Same reason many young girls won't go to their father when they've been violated.

Edit - this type of shyt

 
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Georgia said that the DA had the rape kit info and that they will prosecute at the next available time....


We alll know how backed up the systems are across the country... I'm not saying that this woman isn't wrong.. I'm just saying that if she "was"
roofied.... that would be a tragedy.


But yeah... the fact that she lied gets her some fukkery... but rape tho?

People like her are poison. Lying, sneaking and bringing drama. She needs to be let go. She can not be trusted.
 
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Yep.

He did what he was supposed to as a man to protect their relationship, by putting his foot down n saying no nikkas allowed.

The energy of a roomful of drinking women vs a roomful of men and women that are saucy is so different that he had every right to be like nope.

And then apparently she did it anyways, and now had a traumatic experience occur.

If that's the truth.

I'd dump her just because while I was making moves to protect us, she was doing whatever she wanted.

Can't trust her to put US first means I can't trust her at all.

Tell your boy to find a woman who's worth the commitment, cuz she ain't it.


I think that sums it up...
 
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