I be feeling guilty though seeing black women in pain, I want to save them brehs all jokes aside. I want her to get the respect she deserves as my equal.
Females that don't like GOOD DUDES say that because they are afraid they won't be able to...
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I be feeling guilty though seeing black women in pain, I want to save them brehs all jokes aside. I want her to get the respect she deserves as my equal.
LA Fisher
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shyt is crazy
I went through a similar situation recently. She was telling me how she didn't trust men blah blah and I could genuinely she thepain in her. I tried to show her a better things. We ended up sleeping together and I called her the next day, she talking bout don't call her she with her dude.
That doesn't make her a bad person ...that's a moral issue. I was pertaining more to the sociological standpoint of black women's options...do they create their options or do we?
Why can't any black women have any black man? Like why does she see a guy would doesn't represent the "street" as weak? Or a lame?
It doesn't make her a bad person perse, but she has tangled a web. She was dealing with at least two guys(myself and her dude) , she was playing with both of out emotions. If she was with dude the whole time, she cheated on dude. If she wasn't and she chose dude after we fukked cuz maybe he was a better lay or whatever, she got bad priorities. Perhaps she just liked dude more. I don't know.
O.T.I.S.
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Exactly
I don't like dating single moms BUT I will/have dated them before and that was ONLY when I saw that they completely matured after having their seed. They realized that whatever dude they got with at first was a mistake and focused on not letting that mistake happen again while also turning their complete attention/focus on their child.
I think then a woman like that DESERVES a good dude after showing qualities of maturation. There was no "baby daddy drama" with those women because they handled that relationship and there was no more baby daddy coming in/out of the picture... they were smart enough to know that they could handle their business with or without a BD...
and even though they want/wanted a man, they won't accept anyone coming into their life and are definitely more aware of men like the one they were impregnated by. Sometimes i feel bad because I know they wanted/deserved a good dude but I'm hesitant about being a father
Everyone makes mistakes, it's how you respond to them. Women of every race have kids out of wedlock, it's how they respond to it.
I had this one chick that was BEAUTIFUL.. slim, had a good job, her own shyt, and had a understanding with her BD because she didn't need him and REALLY wanted to be with me. I passed her (and others) up but sometimes wonder if I did the right thing..
But If a chick has 4 kids/multiple baby daddies then 9/10 shes a lost cause
... Mfers waste all those brain cells over-thinking DUMB shyt!!
Yea alot if bytches fall for "mr. Wrong" nikkaz .. So fukkin what who cares. Alot of em stupid and got they priorities fukked up, just like alot of em really want their man to act right and be their leader but they have that "I can change him" mentality when their dating an idiot....again WHO CARES. Live ya life and move on
Yup, go travel and meet women that aint ratchet status.