I stay chattin up hoes in the gym
Gotta look good, have that subtle cocky/confident vibe going on ( I dance a lot between sets, I stay makin eye contact when I'm bustin a move or bobbing my head & love to smile at chicks while dancing - everyone loves a fun dude)
Gem of advice is to befriend at least 1 or 2 chicks at least semi-attractive in the gym or occasionally work out with a female friend, whether those are your targets or not, that way other shorties who might catch your eye see you have positive interactions with other women & get intrigued. The badder the better
I'm fit enough to be a trainer so I use that angle a lot "I always see you going hard in the gym... I'm studying to be a trainer and wanted to get some diff workout programs created for future female clients.... I was wanting to shadow your workout one day to get an idea of what I could put together with a little help, if that's cool with you" Compliment... aspirations (trainer).... collaboration... casual connection
Just can't holla at every bytch & come across as
that guy. Females always peep what's going on even if they act like they sooo oblivious. Hasn't been until after I chatted up chicks they'll tell me they always see me going hard or like my dancing, thought I had a girl, etc. so key is to have YOLO attitude at times and shoot your shot. Rejection won't kill you, if shorties do tell me they have a man I usually tease em and ask why he ain't in here working out with her so we wouldn't be at this point & they usually laugh or smile it off.
Physical escalation --- gotta break the touch barrier with em. After they get comfortable or pass you on multiple occasions, a fist bump/smile when passing, quick lil side hug if yall have chatted before... don't generally offer unsolicited advice but if I
know a chick doesn't know what she's doing on a certain machine I'll give my .02 if it includes repositioning or changing form to hit the intended muscle groups, touching her where she should be feeling the work out..... stretching after yall workout together first doing solo exercises then alternating stretching each others legs.... I'll straight up ask women if they want massages from time to time, some have mentioned needing one before I have which always make it easier... last chick after 10 mins was like oh no Ima need you to come over to really get certain spots
Bottom line.... go hard, get ripped, have a smooth balance between cool innocent looks & animalistic eye contact.... playful power. Let's eat