Fellas..Would you wife this POF chick?

[$lim]

Never know with these POF chicks. Something def is wrong tho. Maybe she can't have kids. Maybe her bref stank. Maybe she has a eating disorder. Wouldn't hurt to try to get to know her but something will come out eventually.

I met a cute brown skinned chick once with no kids who was 27 at the time and I was just waiting for her to hit me with her "story" because I just couldn't understand how her thick ass didn't have kids. I assume all thick bytches have kids from jump.

She had her own crib and was a pharm tech at cvs......ok....cool....no prob there.

Get to her crib and we're chillin talkin etc then here comes the red flags. First she tells me she's from Newark originally (I'm thinkin oh lawd u might as well be from Gary bytch) and then she hits me with "I HAD 4 kids and my baby daddy killed em all"

She was thick tho but goddamn talk about a bad news bytch. Its not even worth hittin a chick like that, I don't need a bytch with that kinda drama in my life. She acted normal as day but losing all your kids......mentally she can't be right in the head.

 

[Ego Noir]

Never know with these POF chicks. Something def is wrong tho. Maybe she can't have kids. Maybe her bref stank. Maybe she has a eating disorder. Wouldn't hurt to try to get to know her but something will come out eventually.

I met a cute brown skinned chick once with no kids who was 27 at the time and I was just waiting for her to hit me with her "story" because I just couldn't understand how her thick ass didn't have kids. I assume all thick bytches have kids from jump.

She had her own crib and was a pharm tech at cvs......ok....cool....no prob there.

Get to her crib and we're chillin talkin etc then here comes the red flags. First she tells me she's from Newark originally (I'm thinkin oh lawd u might as well be from Gary bytch) and then she hits me with "I HAD 4 kids and my baby daddy killed em all"

She was thick tho but goddamn talk about a bad news bytch. Its not even worth hittin a chick like that, I don't need a bytch with that kinda drama in my life. She acted normal as day but losing all your kids......mentally she can't be right in the head.

This story is just..

Talk about emotional baggage..

 

[flusterose]

2 Questions, 1st who hit who up to spark the conversation and second, did you advertise on your profile that you where "open to all races" or "like white men" Just asking

I never initiate conversation so of course, he did. And no i didnt put anything about race in my profile. Made it harder to weed through all the useless emails.

 

[Family Man]

I never initiate conversation so of course, he did. And no i didnt put anything about race in my profile. Made it harder to weed through all the useless emails.

You don't fukk with CACs do you?

 

[Just like bruddas]

@ wifing any woman off POF.

 

[iamstr8fire]

Get to her crib and we're chillin talkin etc then here comes the red flags. First she tells me she's from Newark originally (I'm thinkin oh lawd u might as well be from Gary bytch) and then she hits me with "I HAD 4 kids and my baby daddy killed em all"

 

[Family Man]

 

[BrehMan]

 

[Mars Blackmon]

She isn't on POF for nothing.

1)She has a kid/children

2)She wants a dude that makes more than her

3)She wants a particular (looking) type of man


It wouldn't hurt to talk to her for a while to see where her head is at. She seems like the type of black woman from my era(74-84) that only dates black men. Like it has been said... There's a reason she's on POF...

This. Something's not right. Either she's on there for an ego boost because she's on the rebound, bat crazy, or some other deal breaker. Besides, most women who are nice looking as her, aren't loony and have something going for them that are seriously trying to find a mate online would stick to match.com to weed out the bullshyt.

I see girls like her on POF all the time.

Every chick on there isn't ugly, or fat, or has kids.

BUT, Most of them are there b/c they have unrealistic expectations in regarding who they will find. Mainly b/c they aren't ugly, fat, or have kids they feel they have a higher "price"

And this is why she's on POF gentleman.

Well if that's the case she's not too bright because pof is the bottom of the barrel as far as internet dating goes.

 

[Family Man]

Real talk...If I wasn't already married I'd holla at her.

 

[Ricky Church]

Pass.

 

[Family Man]

Pass.

why?

 

[Ricky Church]

why?

fukk I look like getting married breh

 

[LordTaskForce]

then she hits me with "I HAD 4 kids and my baby daddy killed em all"

 

[#1 pick]

I keep hearing about this 'hand on the hip' pose being a bad sign on a woman. Can you pls explain to me (from a male's perspective) why?

It depends on the location. I used to analyze facebook pics and got it to a science when it came to reading girls in college. It made me seem like the biggest playa when I just knew what and who to talk to about what I want or can get.

She is a college grad but has pics in the club. That should tell you likes that lifestyle. If you don't like to club, you aren't posting club pics.

Her purse between her legs basically screamed money can have this. If it was intentional or not. It was a red flag for any nikka looking for a good girl.

She is clearly attractive, clearly intelligent, and and clearly well groomed. That doesn't make her a great girl much less a great catch. Like someone said, you an attractive girl in a big city and you can't find no one worthy is oddly wrong. Now if it is Atlanta where the comp for women is high, I could understand but it's not Atlanta, it's Charlotte. Even in Atlanta, you can find quality men if you are a quality woman. Just my take.

How you present yourself is as much about you then anything in life.