Oh shyt...you right!
I had a female friend do that shyt to me and our circle of friends.
Was a fattie all her life, then got her stomach stapled and surgery to get rid of the skinflaps...ditched ALL OF US!! Literally, changed her number and moved and wouldn't acknowledge us in the streets.
bytch.
Surgery didn't fix her fryingpan face tho...
I actually learned not to do this, from when I dated a fitness model as the other guy like sheit,....20years ago.
Wow,...anyway, I was smashing this fitness chick for like six years as the other guy off and on.
Then I asked her one day like why do you fukk with me and you got a body builder white cat as your Esso and he paid for your boob job. She was like I fukk with you because you not latching on and trying to use my fitness prowess to get in shape and forget you even know me after you start looking great.
Then later on I found out from male trainer guys.
that helping a female you date get in shape.
Was a recipe for sure disaster and will get you styled on.
to solidify what I was told by the fitness competitor I was involved with.
The great advice I got from her that works for me before I hit the weights was.
You have to lift and stay in shape for you and only you can get in shape for you.
Nobody can motivate you, make you stay on the bike and keep you from hitting the wall.
You dictate what your body will look like no one else.
Art Barr