Fellas help me out with chick

[TRUEST]

coli brehs, please school this younging. im not teaching today.

in case no one tells u in direct terms, they say dont sh1t where u eat specifically for reasons like this.
now you've created a awkward environment.

if u must sh1t where u eat, make sure its the girl thats pursuing you. and not no halfass pursuit either. im talking shes on ur ass, sending u texts relentlessly trying to hang out. outside of that, leave work girls alone! like ALONE!

 

[MindOverMatter]

My first rule of advice is to tell people to go with their instincts and build from there.

The problem is most people don't have instincts that's aren't convoluted with with their own insecurities so they don't trust themselves.

What was your response when she told u she wasn't available?

 

[O.T.I.S.]

In my opinion, you thinking too hard on this.

Did yall already MAKE the plans then she canceled, or did you just tell her you both were going Saturday and she just said she couldn't?

Either way, you already slippin by fukking with someone at your job. Secondly, you seeming to get over emotional about it. If shes not free then shes not free. Should've texted her back like cool and then wait for her to make the next move without being affected by it.

She might just like you as a cool friend or something for now which isn't nothing wrong, you already let her know you wanted something more, but don't push/rush the shyt.

 

[AlainLocke]

She'll call you when she's hungry again, might give you some p*ssy so you can pay for some shyt...

 

[Brolic Scholar]

She has a man. You were a free meal. Keep it moving.

 

[O.T.I.S.]

Damn. So she really finnessed a free meal out of me?

nikka its a date

Not a free meal, and you asked her out.

Relax, its 40$ and she obligated to take you home. It's really not that serious

 

[mag357]

Keep playing it how ur playing it..
A couple things to consider...
Did she just get out of a relationship?
If she did, she's probly still fukking or dealing with that ex in some capacity.
If she was single, why is she single? U said she got a phatty and looks good. She wasnt/aint fukking nobody?
Theres alot of questions but the simple shyt is this...
When a chick diggs you, U dont ever gotta question it. They go hard.
If u gotta do to much thinking or maybe alil too much effort. She aint feeling you LIKE THAT. And ur gonna be fighting an uphill battle the whole time.
The nikka shes really feeling was bussin her ass that day u wanted to go to the movies wit her and she couldnt, nor did she say anything about a different day.
Chix aren't out here really single...
Get U a Loyal ass Fat Chik that adores the shyt outta u...And keep her fat
PEACE

 

[SAINT]

Nah bruh give her some time like 2 weeks then text her like, when are you free? If she gives you a time make plans if not. Move on. Some girls just have a hard time communicating. Just don’t be a simp and read the signals

 

[HonoredOne]

Damn. So she really finnessed a free meal out of me?

You put yourself in a bad spot messing with a co-worker, your one year younger then me sounding like a 30 year old virgin. You gotta use better judgement and work on observing a womans body language/actions vs letting them confuse you emotionally like this lady did.

 

[Guru]

Was thinking the same thing. He's outgunned and playing on private property. OP is fukking up and hella corny. I'm going to say she's out of his league and he should fall back before his feelings get hurt or he fukks up his cash flow.

If OP likes her he should pursue her, but if he's just trying to fukk he should fall back. Unless she's DTF too, she's not going to fukk him. If he just wants to be friends he could make that happen.

Why do guys think ignoring a girl for two days matters? Two days ain't shyt. She got other dudes on deck to text for two days.

So forget about it and move on?

 

[SPACE IS FAKE]

church girl? why doesn’t she drink?

i’m getting undercover/reformed thot vibes

you suppose to be fukking coworkers at the job or in the whip.

tighten up ya game, keep it cordial when you see her and talk to other work hoes.

 

[flea]

I could never rock with church girls like that. I had this really pretty church girl on my dikk hard but holy fukk was she annoying. Constantly talking about wanting me to fukk her, getting mad at me if I didn't text her right away (not even her man), always being childish, she was like a spoiled brat, and she would flake all the time. She sucked my dikk twice but I never fukked her. After a while I just ghosted on her as the kids say. Couldn't deal with that shyt.

 

[An ashy lil fap hand]

Let it go. You made a bold move by telling her you taking her out again and she resisted. You played it straight and didn't score. Don't sweat it.

And ignore the people making her car a factor. If you got money to uber, you're fine, especially at your age.

In my experience, situations like this mean she has someone she's persuing but it ain't there yet. Just keep being nice but don't go outta your way.

 

[SeveroDrgnfli]

So forget about it and move on?

Depends. Do you like her or are you trying to fukk? You can still fukk her TBH, you just gotta be her friend bro. Don't try to be her friend, just do it. Just let it be what it is. It'll throw her off because she'll wonder why you're not trying to fukk her. Just be her friend my guy. It sounds stupid, but that shyt works. Worst than happen is you'll end up with an attractive female friend. That attracts more of them to you.

Turn this into a win win. Don't say you're friend. Don't ever define the relationship. Let her do that. Treat her like someone you like playing ball with. Hit her up when you want to play ball. If she with it, cool, if she not, cool. It doesnt matter because she's just the homie you play ball with. Split the bill. You pay once and she pays once. I'm telling you bro. It'll work.

Give her a nickname like you would one of the homies. Trick is to be patient.

 

[Max.]

Shes not interested...take a L...n bounce back


That "too busy" is bullshyt