Fellas: Bring your minds in here for a second

[BezO]

I'm getting old. All that messagin' & textin' is not for me. It takes way too long to get things done.

What happened to meetin' a broad, calling her a day or 2 later, chattin' for a few and plannin' to get up at the end of that call?

Any way, have a plan. I suggest not asking if she simply wan'ts to hang out. Tell her such & such is going on and you want her to join you.

 

[Mr210]

Yeah your in.

If its a no its because they were plans from before. I'm sure if she can't you guys will schedule some sort of compromise.

yep, if she says no, and then doesnt come out with a time and date that we could do it, then that tells me, she isnt that interested, but if she is like well i cant do it on saturday, however; what about this time or this day then i know she has atleast a mild interest

 

[Mr210]

Call her with a time and place in mind. Bend her will to your schedule. Don't start off p*ssyfooting.

yeah im trying to think ive where i want to take her, I was thinking this place that plays live music, on saturday night they are playing reggae which i dont know if she is interested in reggae but she likes all types of music. I figure the band starts playing at 9, we get there around 830 or so so we can do some talking before hand, and have some drinks. Only issue is the food, they dont serve food there

 

[iamstr8fire]

yeah im trying to think ive where i want to take her, I was thinking this place that plays live music, on saturday night they are playing reggae which i dont know if she is interested in reggae but she likes all types of music. I figure the band starts playing at 9, we get there around 830 or so so we can do some talking before hand, and have some drinks. Only issue is the food, they dont serve food there

Just go to like a sandwich shop (Panera, Jason's Deli, etc) or something lowkey before you go to that bar. I wouldn't recommend a place with music honestly b/c once it starts you really won't be able to talk to her.

 

[Mr210]

Just go to like a sandwich shop (Panera, Jason's Deli, etc) or something lowkey before you go to that bar. I wouldn't recommend a place with music honestly b/c once it starts you really won't be able to talk to her.

hmmm, well I will save that for another time, gotta figure something out then, i usually just do a dinner and an activity, looking for something a little different

 

[Mr210]

I just thought about something, minor league baseball game, we can have fun, yet still be able to talk and she is into sports.....im just too good

 

[kingdizzy01]

@ thread

 

[Kenny West]

based on the amount of thought and anticipation you building up


she gon flake

 

[Mr210]

based on the amount of thought and anticipation you building up


she gon flake

then she flakes such is life...who hasnt gone through that, im about to hit her up about the game saturday night

 

[Mr210]

she said lets do it

 

[bangedher_wholesquad]

 

[SuburbanPimp]

Online Dating gotta be the worse shyt...
I mean you try to finesse it so you don't seem thirsty.

But you on a online dating site so you are obviously thirsty...

shyts crazy....

back in my blackplanet days, After 4-5 messages it was "So when we linking up today or tomorrow?"

Tell her today that you want to link up this weekend plain and simp...

 

[Mr210]

Online Dating gotta be the worse shyt...
I mean you try to finesse it so you don't seem thirsty.

But you on a online dating site so you are obviously thirsty...

shyts crazy....

back in my blackplanet days, After 4-5 messages it was "So when we linking up today or tomorrow?"

Tell her today that you want to link up this weekend plain and simp...

already did and she already said yes, going to a minor league baseball game, and just because you are on an online dating site doesnt mean you are thirsty because if thats the case then millions of people are thirsty then