Fear is what keeps most guys from getting the woman they want

[Grand Cru Boo]

I agree, I think fear is a fact however, I think the way males look at females is the problem. Males have to realize its not that hard. Woman are human with natural tendencies just like you. Dont put them in higher regard then necessary.

the best advice I could give a brotha is- dont think about it, just do it. At the end of the day, its a numbers game ( whether out on the street or online). some females are going to play you and thats fine. Their probably insecure about themselves to even hold a conversation.

If you want to start somewhere, start with a females you dont find attractive. Get a feel at what to say and how to say it. after that graduate to a female that is slightly better but not what your looking for.

I want all my brothers to eat out here. Take it from a brother that has been doing it since I was a young boy. Its not as hard as you think.

 

[thoushallhustle]

why would you be scared to approach a woman?

the worst thing she can say is no

 

[Sierra Mist]

why would you be scared to approach a woman?

the worst thing she can say is no

Or completely shyt on your existence. I agree with the OP for the most part, but you can be the most non-timid guy on Earth who always approaches women. If women don't like you, then it doesn't matter. I guess that's where the qualifier of "most" comes into play.

 

[thoushallhustle]

Or completely shyt on your existence. I agree with the OP for the most part, but you can be the most non-timid guy on Earth who always approaches women. If women don't like you, then it doesn't matter. I guess that's where the qualifier of "most" comes into play.

I understand. Remember I used to strip so I know what rejection feels like and I know how it feels when someone purposely tries to insult you. but Dudes need to cut that fear shyt out. Confidence is EVERYTHING in life. Women can sense when a man has no self confidence and its a turn off. I gurantee yall if you changed your approach your success rate would increase.

 

[Sierra Mist]

I understand. Remember I used to strip so I know what rejection feels like and I know how it feels when someone purposely tries to insult you. but Dudes need to cut that fear shyt out. Confidence is EVERYTHING in life. Women can sense when a man has no self confidence and its a turn off. I gurantee yall if you changed your approach your success rate would increase.

Oh yeah I agree with you. Does confidence guarantee success? Nope but it helps your chances by a large margin. Can't deny that.

 

[thoushallhustle]

Oh yeah I agree with you. Does confidence guarantee success? Nope but it helps your chances by a large margin. Can't deny that.

define succes?

 

[Sierra Mist]

define succes?

As in the woman showing him any type of interest back.

 

[Dooby]

I understand. Remember I used to strip so I know what rejection feels like and I know how it feels when someone purposely tries to insult you. but Dudes need to cut that fear shyt out. Confidence is EVERYTHING in life. Women can sense when a man has no self confidence and its a turn off. I gurantee yall if you changed your approach your success rate would increase.

Because courage is a bountiful resource that is acquired through easy conjuration of thought!

Stop lacking self confidence and BE confident!

Spoiler

Do you realize how dumb you sound

Equivalent of telling a bum, stop being poor and get rich! He sure as shyt doesn't know how! Or else he would be!

 

[rapdonttweet]

lol. given the amount of threads on women on this board, trust, fear aint the reason guys aint getting the girl they want. it plays a part. but u can be fearless, step to a chick and get shutdown if u aint her cup of tea.

That's one scenario. But a dude who can approach and talk to women is gonna keep doing that and find what he wants.

 

[Peruvian Connect]

True. I missed out on alot because of this.

Based on what? Wishful thinking

 

[Peruvian Connect]

I understand. Remember I used to strip so I know what rejection feels like and I know how it feels when someone purposely tries to insult you. but Dudes need to cut that fear shyt out. Confidence is EVERYTHING in life. Women can sense when a man has no self confidence and its a turn off. I gurantee yall if you changed your approach your success rate would increase.

Women don't know shyt. The majority of these nikkas these chicks think is confident is fukkboys to the core.

 

[bangedher_wholesquad]

Put it rhis way. If u aint nailin them in hs or college. What makes u think u can do it now?

 

[FreshFromATL]

I agree with this thread and I know for a fact that the issue is fear. I had a homie in college that did not eat NO WHERE near as well as he should have due to fear. This scary ass nikka man, just smh . Girls used to ask me about this nikka all the time but he was too scary to ever get something started with them unless they straight up initiated some shyt with him. And there was no use in trying to get this nikka to approach girls out in the open away from school, smh. I KNOW this nikka coulda ate more than he did but ol' well . I say the problem is fear over looks because a lot of nikkas can't even approach women to find out whether or not she would be interested in the first place.

 

[Jesus Shuttlesworth]

It's all mental.

 

[thoushallhustle]

Because courage is a bountiful resource that is acquired through easy conjuration of thought!

Stop lacking self confidence and BE confident!

Spoiler

Do you realize how dumb you sound

Equivalent of telling a bum, stop being poor and get rich! He sure as shyt doesn't know how! Or else he would be!

its not rocket science. Are you that socially awkward that you dont even know how to fake confidence?

Women don't know shyt. The majority of these nikkas these chicks think is confident is fukkboys to the core.

They might be fukkboys but theyre confident fukkboys. Again this isnt rocket science. Yall make it way more complicated then it has to be.