So someone who pulls a gun on me is supposed to get the benefit of the doubt that they will NOT pull the trigger on said gun? Thats not how things work in the real world unfortunately. She didnt have to finish what she said because I already knew what she was saying. Confirmed by her shutting her mouth when she was preempted and again when she pleaded for me not to do anything.
Theres this thing called responsibility in regards to maneuvering in the real world that men are very conscious of in dealing with people. Ofcourse I have a problem with threats. As anyone should but unless the responsibility of protecting others falls upon you, I don't expect you to understand. To answer your question more directly, in my eyes, yes she would have a reason to retaliate against me for harming her family since her wanting to do so would obviously verify that she understands why I harmed her family in the first place. you are talking in a circle in this sense. I have EVERY right to defend myself of ANY REASONABLY PERCEIVED threat which is what this was. All things being equal, I would not act surprised or bewildered if they chose to retaliate after the fact. The part about the real world chimes in here. Her cousins, understood that. She was made to understand that and apologized to me and him for doing it to begin with. She learned something valuable that im sure shes considerate of in her life since.
Your instance was different, tho.
You were in a situation with a back story.
That is totally different to your story and I get the emotional attachment and venting comparison.
Your incident is different.
Totally different, we never got to see if there was a female verbally precipitating the incident like yours.
You were not out of order and real talk,...
You handled it the right way because the female created verbal in trepidation that are threats and in a relationship.
When no real committal should ever have that level of verbal intrepidation at all
All we know in this incident is fiance and cheating.
In this instance pops is justified cause in just that we know as a man you have to give a vow to a male parent who was present to ask him to take on the financial responsibilities of marriage.
In your situation it was a female in a committal totally wrong creating verbal Intrepidation.
which do not belong in committal based relationships.
All that old maid yell at my old man and threaten him like I am a man shyt is dead.
No man should ever be prisoner to that level of disrespect ever or verbal intrepidation ever in a committal.
Art Barr
How can you tell? I'm on mobile n shyt
No way would I get disrespected like that
I'm 100% sure I've never been cheated on.
