It isnt gay to be in love or have feelings for another, man.
I love my brother, I'm in love with my best friend.
I woulda do gay stuff though.
So, i believe Frank Ocean was in love but maybe he just didnt act on his gay urges sexually.
I would think the emotion would classify one as homosexual more than the physical act. If you use a fleshlight are you a fleshlightosexual? But if you are in love with the fleshlight, I don't know what to call you I would consider you a fleshlightosexual.