I'm cool with just going to the court house. I'd rather spend my money on an extravagant honeymoon or trip. Maybe we can also have money for a down payment on a house.
We went the JOP route. I find weddings boring, the thought of shopping for wedding dresses made me cringe, and I didn't want to deal with everything that comes with a wedding.
We had a nice reception and and even nicer honeymoon.
I've been thinking about this. I want a lowkey wedding as in,yeah everyone come to the church, dress up if you want, I'll wear white.
And for the reception we'll just have a huge cookout at the relative with the biggest backyard house, with barbeque, dice games, and family fun lol.
All the money spent on dresses, tuxes, decorations, frivolous stuff can be spent on our honeymoon. We can go wherever we want for however long we want, just really live it up.
I always get with parties, planning, and large gatherings.
We agreed on going to the courthouse and thats it but our mothers wanted a cermony and reception.
We told them give us the money they would spend on it instead. Of course they said fukk nah.
In the end we (meaning my husband and mothers cuz I was still against it) had a ceremony in the judge's office (with about 16 family members) and a reception dinner at my moms with even more family.
If I could do it again, I'd do it with just me, him, and the kids in front of the judge and a family vacay later.
I want a very extravagant wedding, i don't have many close relatives, so it can be low-key and extravagant at the same time, i wanna look and feel like a queen for a day (been a princess for the past 24 years ) wouldnt have to spend much cash on food cause there would be 50 people max!
Luckily my Fiance doesn't give af so he said I can do what I want. Whenever I "ask" him about something I want to add to it he just says "it's your day, you're the boss, do what you want" Thank the lord Jesus.
Luckily my Fiance doesn't give af so he said I can do what I want. Whenever I "ask" him about something I want to add to it he just says "it's your day, you're the boss, do what you want" Thank the lord Jesus.
I love my fam but I'm not close to my family.
I would rather have a low key wedding for my parents happiness. But in reality, I'd just take a trip to the court house.
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