Ex-husband allegedly kills wife after she opens up about divorce journey on TikTok

[Ya Sinning Mane]

Get married brehettes

 

[RamsayBolton]

She would be alive if she kept it offline.

Maybe but she was probably trying to help empower other women in that sort of situation with an abusive dude

 

[Duke Wy Lin]

She would be alive if she kept it offline.

Not excusing the filthy scumbag who did this, but she knew dude was emotionally volatile and violent. Even counselors would've advised against going public with the details of the breakup, since a volatile and potentially dangerous ex-husband would definitely take this as "losing face".

Ppl like that don't operate the same way normal ppl do. It's perfectly reasonable in their world to kill someone and take one's own life if they lose face or feel exposed. Generally, the way to deal with them is by creating distance (which she did by moving to a different city), go zero contact and then just wait it out. Hopefully he gets his tentacles onto someone else (which is unfortunate to say but sadly oftentimes that's when they finally leave the previous victim alone).

Gavin De Becker talks about this in "the gift of fear" which I would recommend every woman, or anyone who has sisters and daughters, to read.

 

[African Peasant]

Maybe but she was probably trying to help empower other women in that sort of situation with an abusive dude

I don't think so. Let's keep it real.

This is not the first case we've seen in recent years of a poor woman getting killed because she was trying to clout chase off her relationship on social network.

 

[African Peasant]

This is why I don't respect people who wants to keep things traditional, especially these "tough it out" folks that want people to stay together when the shyt is going wrong and it won't even get better.

What this shyt has to do with her getting killed?

She was already divorced.

This has to do with her ex husband still wanting her or not wanting her spilling the tea on tiK tok.

Non-traditional folks also kill their wife/husband.

 

[goatmane]

 

[Morethan1]

What's her tic

 

[Ezekiel 25:17]

I'm not victim blaming but women have to take everything to the internet

 

[KBtheKey]

This is why I don't respect people who wants to keep things traditional, especially these "tough it out" folks that want people to stay together when the shyt is going wrong and it won't even get better.

Her community shamed her for leaving an abusive marriage that almost took her life before she lost her life. Some of these men and women won't let people go on to be happy with someone else, so they wanna take their lives and then take the p*ssy way out by committing suicide to avoid being held accountable for it.

She was so weak that she had to throw subs at her family and ex husband on the internet for the whole world to see? She needed strangers to tell her she made the right decision?

I knew a chick just like this that if in the same situation, her dude would have came and prolly strangled her and their kids. Everything doesn't have to go on the internet, especially sympathy seeking.

She could've talked about it and got all the nice comments in the world off reddit and stayed completely anonymous. She wanted her image attached to the story tho

That doesn't make what happened to her justifiable. Just saying not everything needs to be posted. She could've just moved on if she didn't even care about tradition in the first place

 

[Scustin Bieburr]

Putting him on blast over tik tok sent an already volatile person over the edge. Dude probably going to commit that too, the shame of being exposed is too much for men like this to handle. He failed as a husband, and now he's a murderer and is hated by two families and many people who don't even know him online.

 

[LadyJ2]

I thank God every day I wasn’t born Indian/Pakistani - WOAT men

 

[ORDER_66]

Damn she was kinda attractive too man I guess his honor was besmirched and he couldn't deal with it... Man they really HOH from that culture...

 

[Pull Up the Roots]

Not excusing the filthy scumbag who did this, but she knew dude was emotionally volatile and violent. Even counselors would've advised against going public with the details of the breakup, since a volatile and potentially dangerous ex-husband would definitely take this as "losing face".

Ppl like that don't operate the same way normal ppl do. It's perfectly reasonable in their world to kill someone and take one's own life if they lose face or feel exposed. Generally, the way to deal with them is by creating distance (which she did by moving to a different city), go zero contact and then just wait it out. Hopefully he gets his tentacles onto someone else (which is unfortunate to say but sadly oftentimes that's when they finally leave the previous victim alone).

Gavin De Becker talks about this in "the gift of fear" which I would recommend every woman, or anyone who has sisters and daughters, to read.

You might not think it's an excuse, but this is an excuse. It is basically saying that "if she didn't do this, she would still be alive."

 

[Dre God]

Between twitter broadcasting every deranged thought of nobodies in this country, and tik tok broadcasting videos of their lives we in for an interesting 2020’s.

 

[Marlow Stanfield]

just like clockwork

you can set your clock to it