Ever had to break a kids NBA/NFL/Pro Sports dream?

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Aint nothing worse than a cat who's holding on a dream that's never gonna happen.

all that time holding onto some pipe dream, when he could've found something else to aspire to reach.


it's like somebody who's still believing in Santa, you gon' have do it.


If someone's holding on to the idea that they're going to be a professional athlete and they haven't accomplished any of the steps neccessary to do so



There's more of those in music than in sports because there are steps you have to take to become an athlete.....if a person isn't smart enough to realize they won't ever be a pro athlete after a certain point they probably wouldn't have accomplished anything else anyways.

Now music......is the scary thing because there are absolutely no requirements to make it and you can blow at any point. Lot's of people are wasting their life on a music career that will never happen.
 
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It's not for to tell him, especially if you're not in the league or ever played professionally. He's not going to listen to you anyway and count you as another hater. Tell him to enroll in a Comm. Coll. and go from there.

this dude is an otherwise good kid, and I'd hate to see him become a bum in life... his moms basically pampers (hinders) him.... I think she believes too...

she asked why I don't come to his HS games...

because he gets no clock.

Bottom line is I hate to see someone speeding and not seeing that brick wall ahead... I've seen many a fool hit that wall I wanna be able to save one I guess....


:cape:
 

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It's bad karma to kill someone's dreams.....You gotta let people find out for themselves.

But what if they are putting off viable options because they are clouded with delusions...to be a pro it would be evident everytime you competed against common folk you would destroy everyone...if that isn't happening then you have to look at yourself in the mirror and be brutally honest
 
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Some people aren't going to take your advice. Tell that person to have a back up plan. If they playing juco..tell him to get his grades up in case it doesn't work out.

Obviously there's always that one dude who be like "failure is not an option":rudy:
 

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yeah, lil homie is talkin about going overseas or d league or something if the NBA isn't an option (which it isn't)... he even get offended when I tell him to focus more on school than sports.

He jie tried to carry me once on some "I ain't trying to be like you working 9-5 everyday"...

from the DMV playboy? I see u:jawalrus:
 

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that all depends on their work ethic, natural ability and if they actually have a plan.

if they didn't come of age in high school, it aint the end of the world because a lot of colleges have open tryouts to scoop up walk-ons... or there is also going to a comm or junior college like someone else said.

If you didn't go to college or didnt play there or just wasnt that good, then shyts tougher but the DLeague stays having open tryouts in the major cities as well. Its bottom of the barrel shyt of course but, at the end of the day, if you can play.. and i don't mean you the man at your local bullshyt YMCA and no where else... but that you legit got a jumper, handle, and decent height (6'2+), size and/or athletecism then you'll have a chance up until your mid-20s.

but not too many people who talk that big talk have a legit jumper, handle, and the height/size/etc to even be recognized outside the 'system' to begin with... and the few who do, either gotta work a 9 to 5, got baby mommas, smoke/drink too much or on some other type of bullshyt that they aint working hard for it anyway.

I had one homeboy a year or so ago who made it overseas in one of them leagues despite not playin on a college squad outside of travel teams and intramural leagues at our university.. but dude was a freak of nature athletically, had legit skills to begin with, and put in serious work in the gym during the semesters and summers. From what I understood, he either went to one of those Dleague tryouts and got seen or he got discovered in one of those city-teams that he tried out for.

either way, he was a rare case of height (6'4), talent, athletic ability and a perfrect situation to continue working on his game (prob either student loans or living with his folks)... despite being outside of the traditional 'system'. The vast majority don't have all those factors going for them to be realistic with their "dreams" however.
 

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nah but i've seen them killed :to:

Canada and the US are different. it seems if u a freak at a sport US will coddle u. In canada, unless u already noticed by the US, they will shoot u down.

If u a sick athlete DO NOT come to canada. not only does NCAA members not have any power there, but they just don't respect sports, other than hockey, in general.

I've noticed in the midst of MLB and the beginning of the NFL, Canadian sports stations will manage to fit it NHL news.

I wish i was in the states, esp for sports. its religion down thre. esp football.






I won't kill no one's dreams though. i'll just say sh!t like well if u can jump higher, shoot better, handle the ball better, u'd make it. some ppl just want to hear they can do it. even if they know they cant
 
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