Ever had to break a kids NBA/NFL/Pro Sports dream?

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This lil dude where I live has BIG NBA dreams but I can't tell him flatly.. "you ain't gonna make it".

Dude just graduated HS, isn't even in the local CC right now, and quite honestly... he doesn't have that drive (nor talent) to even make it to the D1 level as it stands. I try to tell'em in a roundabout way like.. People who are NBA bound usually at least have college offers before they leave HS. I bring the dude to the gym with me and he doesn't even kill the competition there (and we're all pretty much shells of our former selves, many 30+. He never talks about it at the gym... I might just bring it up randomly at the gym and let the wolves have him. But he's adamant. I feel bad for the dude.

Any of you had to deal with someone like that?
 

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I knew this dude who was a 6'3", 175 lb guard with a nice stroke, but suspect handles. He was the sixth man at this crappy junior college back home in Tennessee. Let him tell it, he was going to make the NBA as a free agent, or play overseas somewhere. Now he's back in our hometown working at some factory.
 
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I knew this dude who was a 6'3", 175 lb guard with a nice stroke, but suspect handles. He was the sixth man at this crappy junior college back home in Tennessee. Let him tell it, he was going to make the NBA as a free agent, or play overseas somewhere. Now he's back in our hometown working at some factory.

yeah, lil homie is talkin about going overseas or d league or something if the NBA isn't an option (which it isn't)... he even get offended when I tell him to focus more on school than sports.

He jie tried to carry me once on some "I ain't trying to be like you working 9-5 everyday"...
 

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Haha. The working man truly is a sucker. nikka need to get his shyt together though. Don't want to wake up oneday like gotdamn i'm how old, i ain't did shyt.
 

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kill dreams everyday B its the highlight of my 9-5
 

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There's a dude who hoops at the local gym here...who didn't play in high school, can't shoot a left-handed lay-up and has almost zero athleticism....and is like 23....and is a 5'9" white dude....

...who legitimately plans on trying out for a D-League team. He's actually paying a shooting coach at the moment...$50/Hr like 3 times a week

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This lil dude where I live has BIG NBA dreams but I can't tell him flatly.. "you ain't gonna make it".

Dude just graduated HS, isn't even in the local CC right now, and quite honestly... he doesn't have that drive (nor talent) to even make it to the D1 level as it stands. I try to tell'em in a roundabout way like.. People who are NBA bound usually at least have college offers before they leave HS. I bring the dude to the gym with me and he doesn't even kill the competition there (and we're all pretty much shells of our former selves, many 30+. He never talks about it at the gym... I might just bring it up randomly at the gym and let the wolves have him. But he's adamant. I feel bad for the dude.

Any of you had to deal with someone like that?

It's not for to tell him, especially if you're not in the league or ever played professionally. He's not going to listen to you anyway and count you as another hater. Tell him to enroll in a Comm. Coll. and go from there.
 
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It's worse for kids that have skill and DO go to a D1. They all think they goin pro and most don't focus on school while they're there. Had a free education and didn't use it.

yea...sad really...

whats worse is that we have millions of young black boys trying to get into the nba and nfl...thats a total of less than what...2400 jobs?

and damn near every little boy thinks hes gonna make it? :sadcam:
 

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It's bad karma to kill someone's dreams.....You gotta let people find out for themselves.

Aint nothing worse than a cat who's holding on a dream that's never gonna happen.

all that time holding onto some pipe dream, when he could've found something else to aspire to reach.


it's like somebody who's still believing in Santa, you gon' have do it.
 

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i had a friend that came to grips with the idea when they ran into the rare precocious 12 year old kids at the gym that can drain NBA 3s and actually do damage in a pick up game and run point. they are out there and some of them aint still going to be shyt.
 
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