Ever had a problem breaking up

Pool_Shark

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Just split with my girl yesterday and it's hard right now. She got all rowdy and shyt the other day and I had to give her the :rudy: Had to walk away cause I was real close to putting hands on her. Can't stand someone yelling at me and just be stupid.

Yesterday she comes through and is like "I'm sorry, come back home, it got a little out of hand." I had to tell her I couldn't be with her cause I came real close to doing something stupid and I can't risk something like that going too far. It's not the first argument we've had but I'm fed up with her bullshyt.

Only problem is we have a kid. I don't date or engage in relationships but this girl is from way back before I knew anything. I don't know if I'm making the right choice by breaking up with her or if I should stick around in the relationship for my son.

I just don't like her anymore. We've been together for 4 years and I'm starting to resent her for missing out on a lot of things. I want to fukk other girls and I'm 21 so I'm not even trying to commit but then am I being selfish. Then I'm also like fukk her :pacspit: she apologizes but then she's going to try and talk shyt again.


Now she's crying and all depressed when she picks up my son. I feel like a piece of shyt but then it was her fault for arguing in the first place and forgetting who she was talking to.
 

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Just split with my girl yesterday and it's hard right now. She got all rowdy and shyt the other day and I had to give her the :rudy: Had to walk away cause I was real close to putting hands on her. Can't stand someone yelling at me and just be stupid.

Yesterday she comes through and is like "I'm sorry, come back home, it got a little out of hand." I had to tell her I couldn't be with her cause I came real close to doing something stupid and I can't risk something like that going too far. It's not the first argument we've had but I'm fed up with her bullshyt.

Only problem is we have a kid.
I don't date or engage in relationships but this girl is from way back before I knew anything. I don't know if I'm making the right choice by breaking up with her or if I should stick around in the relationship for my son.

I just don't like her anymore. We've been together for 4 years and I'm starting to resent her for missing out on a lot of things. I want to fukk other girls and I'm 21 so I'm not even trying to commit but then am I being selfish. Then I'm also like fukk her :pacspit: she apologizes but then she's going to try and talk shyt again.


Now she's crying and all depressed when she picks up my son. I feel like a piece of shyt but then it was her fault for arguing in the first place and forgetting who she was talking to.





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nope...all my ex's i still fukk with on occasions...no love lost...they knew wha it do..


well everybody but my sons mother...only problem...had to cut her off kuz she knew my routes..didnt know why i made jus knew i had places i had to be all the time thru out he day..when i was in the game..almost got me set up...n actually one of my spots robbed..

her roachin ass brother ..was 2 dumb to move a pebble..n thought i would put em on...

i never spoke on how i hustled...but seein her come by with different cars n shyt...he knew i wasnt doin a 9to5...

she didnt even kno...after they got in a discussion..n he went off n told his momma i was dealer..n he dont want no kingpin comin 2 the house...nikka useta pester me every day bout frontin him somethin or putin him on a zone..he keep 30...n i get 70 back...

nikka couldnt even get his own bread to even buy a pack to flip n keep the profit...plus he couldnt hold ice water..if he got caught..

long story short..he follwed me .. to one of my shotgun houses...him n some flunkies robbed it...neighbors saw it..when i got word..

i quit fukkin witth her..n went after her brother

...nikka the reason i got my aggravated robbery charge...kuz i got all my shyt back...n fukked off all the nikkas involved...

put myself on child support while locked up...she been hot ever since...kuz she wanted to talk about it..not go thru the court..n wanted 2 get broke off every 2 weeks...n keep the cars...

i got it set that i do have to deal with her or see her at all...when pickin my nikka up..its like i dont even exist when it comes to her...only time i see her

is if im back in the projects fukkin with kinfolk...or at some event....she dont come thru kuz i got a cousin who slide her bytch ass everytime she see her...

try sendin messages thru a damn toddler...nikka be like momma on that bullshyt...
 

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tuff shyt buddy....

i folded when she started to cry and ended up giving that dead situation more life........

record ur experience tho and post it here
 

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Be lucky you don't have a child with said person. Nothing than worse than an individual that refuses to move on with their life involving the judicial system :smh:
 

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Be lucky you don't have a child with said person. Nothing than worse than an individual that refuses to move on with their life involving the judicial system :smh:

yep...specially if u smart with ya paper..

i learned the hard way..gotta crawl be4 u walk..
 

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The easiest way to break up with a girl is to get another girl. It really drives the point home.

But remember... If you break up with your chick you better be sure it's what you want. We don't need no more sob story threads on here.

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fukk all these childish games....cheat on her, find someone else, be mean until she leaves, etc. :snoop: That's just gonna cause more problems and some girls will still stay throughout all that shyt, so the easiest way is to be straight up with her. Tell her that you think she's a great person, but that you just are better off not being in a relationship with eachother. Tell her it's best for the both of you that you just go your seperate ways and go on about your lives. Say it's nothing against her, you just feel like there is no future with her, so why keep stringing her along?

Try and be as nice as you can.....and comforting if you can. If she starts asking for reasons why or what did she do wrong, tell her she did nothing and that you just don't see her being the girl for you in long run.

If you waste the time in telling her everything she did wrong, she might think that she can change for you and that she still has a chance. You have to drive it home as nicely as you can that there is no chance in hell.

You might have to get mean......some chicks don't get it until you :pacspit:all over their feelings. It sucks, but sometimes that's just how it goes.

Good Luck breh.
 

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I MADE THAT MISTAKE A FEW TIMES. IT'S JUST SO DAMN HARD IF YOU DO STILL HAVE SOME FEELINGS. HER PUPPY EYES KILLED ME EVERY TIME. AT LEAST THIS TIME SHE BROKE UP WITH ME AND I'M HOME FREE NOW. WE'RE ON GOOD TERMS NOW BUT I HATE WHEN SHE DOES AFFECTIONATE STUFF.
 

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Just dump her chicken.

Never be scared to break up with a chick because they are never scared to break up with you.

The longer you stay with someone you don't want to be with , the more time you are wasting in your life.
 
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