Ever had a problem breaking up

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I have been with this girls for almost a year and I like her but no love tho. The problem is that she told me that she loves me and all I said was okay. She is still around what can I do to let her go without hurting her feelings too much?
 

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cheat on her and get caught. :manny: there is no delicate way to tell a woman that's in love with you that you want her to kick rocks....shyt is gonna end up with waterworks anyway, so might as well have fun...:yeshrug:
 

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Eh, just remember it takes like 3 times before the breakup actually sinks in on a chick.

There's gonna be tears, so be ready for that.

She's gonna tell you that she'll "do anything". Fight the urge to make her do some sadistic sexual stuff. Just don't go there.

Don't tell her that you want to be friends, cause that just gives them hope. Be real. Be blunt.
 

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I have been with this girls for almost a year and I like her but no love tho. The problem is that she told me that she loves me and all I said was okay. She is still around what can I do to let her go without hurting her feelings too much?
i was in the same situation a few months ago, real good chick, she just wasnt my type, i hid the way i felt for a while till one day i just had to say somethin, she came thru to fukk and i just couldn't get wit it. shyt wasnt easy cause i really didn't wanna hurt her, and it got even harder when she started cryin but it was either hurt her a lil bit now or hurt her a lot later. I kept it real and told her i had a lot of fun with her but i don't think we're meant for each other relationship wise
 

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Word, Blvd. I agree with that.

The early stages of severing a relationship is never easy, though not because of the heartache itself.


Cuz imo, the hardest part of breaking up...


is getting back your stuff.


.

that's why you slowly start collecting your shyt BEFORE you hit her with the bad news. that way, you can walk away clean like :jawalrus: while she stand in the doorway staring at you drive away through the screen door like :sadcam:
 
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Don't tell her you want to be friends. Be honest and cut her off completely. It is the best thing you can do for her. DO NOT GIVE HER ANY HOPE. Tell her that you two will NEVER be together. And have the balls to do it in person.

That last part is crucial. It shows youre hundred percent positive with tue decision to end things and do the whole makeup to breakup cycle
 

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its pretty easy to shake a female you no longer like heres how
just ignore her and be a lazy boring fukk dont buy her shyt dont take her out

she will eventually be like fukk it i deserve better :yeshrug:
 

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Yep, gotta have the talk. No hope and cold turkey, then ad you men do, hit her up in 6 months on a friendly basis only so she can have an ego stroke. But yea, as a femme, gotta cry during the breakup, even if your relieved. Trust, those tears aren't all for you, its for the future she believed yall would have.



Oh, yea as a chick, I must (sorry in advance) tell you your an a$$hole and if you weren't sure you shouldn't have fukked her. :manny:
 

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Word, Blvd. I agree with that.

The early stages of severing a relationship is never easy, though not because of the heartache itself.


Cuz imo, the hardest part of breaking up...


is getting back your stuff.


.

:russ: you just made me spit out my water nikka :lolbron:
 

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that's why you slowly start collecting your shyt BEFORE you hit her with the bad news. that way, you can walk away clean like :jawalrus: while she stand in the doorway staring at you drive away through the screen door like :sadcam:

:lolbron: y'all are some sick individuals man but I'll be damned if y'all aint funny...Im rolling over here.

nikkas giving advice and pointers on how to break girls hearts with the least amount of damage to yourself :laff:
 
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