Every relationship isn't transactional. I know plenty of dudes in happy relationships/marriages with women who make more money than them. And these are not ugly or weird women either. What are those dudes paying for?It's not sad. What's sad is this culture where you think you should get something for nothing or you use guile to get it. We pay for everything in life. So long as everyone is safe, it's consensual and everyone is of age what's the problem????