First off your not having dialogue with a woman that's a romantic so I honestly don't think love is all you need to sustain a relationship. You are right economics is a big component when getting with someone.
However, all that shyt you wrote above has absolutely NOTHING to do with OP paying for services. NOTHING.
You said love wasn't free...here we are talking about an emotional feeling and you put monetary things to it.
Because love is monetary...
How many women are gonna say marry a man that wouldn't give her a wedding or a wedding ring...
How many women are gonna stick with a man that doesn't take her out on dates...
Men pay for love, sex and companionship...whether they wanna admit it nor not. Most of the ways a man get and keeps a woman involves an economic transaction that he must facilitate by himself. Women ain't out here paying for dates. Women ain't out here buying wedding rings. Some women out here living with a man and ain't paying shyt towards the rent.
This ain't kindergarten where you go up to a girl and be like..."I think you are pretty..."
And she goes..."I think you are cute.."
And then yall go together.
Men are going up to women and asking them on dates and shyt...
Men are taking women places and paying the whole shyt.
OP paid for a girlfriend experience (if he really did...) no different than taking a very attractive women on a vacation...
You pay for everything and you get some p*ssy and a bytch to listen to a conversation...
Some nikkas take bytches out on dates and shyt and are listed as free food/vacation...in their contacts by a bytch...