Nobody should be thinking about "getting ass" as anything more than a form of degeneracy and weakness. They should be thinking about being a hard-working family man who does well by his wife, career and children. That's what breeds success individually and collectively. For some it takes a long time for them to get to family man level of self control and responsibility. For others, self control and responsibility come first. Some never make it. But there it looms like an army medallion. College is similar. For some it takes a long time for them to get into a study routine and get high marks. For others, they get high marks and succeed from the start. That is the analogy between being a degenerate and a family; or a low life moron in college and a high achieving student.
In the end there is only one path which leads to consistent and reproducible success and that is Ebron is pursuing. There is no successful group on the planet with a "fukk hos" mentality. Literally the most successful peoples on the planet are conservative, marriage-oriented, responsible, seemingly "lame" (by African American standards) people. Moral men don't go searching for model whores; they marry their sweethearts, who are the best wife material. On the other hand "athletes" do the opposite and their results are clear to see. There is a successful pattern here and Ebron is following it. He seems like he has a good head on his shoulders, just as manning does. Just like a college student can succeed if he wants to put in the work, Ebron can succeed if he wants to put in the work. A whore's worth is whatever you make it; a wife's worth is whatever you make it. If you value marriage, devotion, a family and a future, you will do everything to ensure that happens.