I was gonna post a clip from a show as an example, then I remembered there's t*ts in it so it wouldn't be on youtube lol
But the scene in question is a woman, spending the day with two dudes in a hotel, smoking, drinking, eating fruit and just having passionate sex with them. Then during a smoke break, one dude is talking to his mother, and hands the other dude the phone like "mom wants to talk to you"
She didn't know they were brothers. They all been in the shower together, in the bed, spit roasting that bytch, high fiving and anything you can think of. They were interacting in a sexual context obviously but at no point did they direct any of their sexual focus toward each other...is that gay? Is calling it a train, rather than a threesome more macho?
Like you said at the end of your post "we ran that hoe", as in we used her, we got over on her ect...that's not always the set up.