Dwight Howard's son: "My Dad Aint A Real Dad"

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SO he not to blame for being a shytty dad?:gucci:

Not really, same way I can't blame 45 for being a dipshyt, ain't shyt is ain't shyt, people who validate it ain't shyt when theyhave higher ground/responsibility I've always blamed more. Hitler was Hitler but the German people democratically gave him power, same with Muricans and 45, same with baby mamas and absent/distant fathers/

Btw y'all get used to this as more decent men check out of marriage/family life polygamy on the way byke, which will lead to more dysfunction.

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Or how about Dwight practice some self control.
FOH if humans that where in position financially/mentally practiced self control, America, China and damn near all 1st world countries would be a literal utopia. People are impulsive, and smarter people tend to breed less. Women don't value intelligence like that, you get what you get as a result.
 

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Abortion > neglected black child
For some reason BLACK folk don't understand this. Even though they see how unguided male youth with no aspiration devastates the community. CACs want just the bolded because they get slaves out of it via the prison industrial complex (modern slavery).

People HATE to talk about it but in a rigged system the quickest way out of poverty is for those at bottom to put off having, then limit children to 1-2. That way that 30,000 job can have SOMETHING saved/invested annually. 30K with a kid as a single parent equals perpetual debt for 90% of people in that position with no inheritance. That financial setup's high yield of failure isn't a black thing it's a broke thing, that happens to apply to too many black folk
 

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Are DL/Gay nikkas terrible Dads?

My new Girlfriend's X husband signed over his Rights to their daughter no Question, and hasn't seen her in 10 years.

Just living it up wirh his husband.. Matching Yorkies and everything...
 

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Do some of you guys blaming the kid have kids?

My kids and almost every other kid I know thinks their dad is superman. So I can imagine your dad ignoring you must hurt. Yes money is great and all but I'd wager most kids would rather have their dads company than material things.

It will hurt even more when he finally marries and raises kids with the woman he eventually gets married to. And you will wonder why you weren't special enough to him for him to make the effort for you. Not the effort of marrying your mom but the effort of being in your life as much as possible.

Regardless how shytty a baby mama is try your best to be in your kids life. Not just send a check. Spend actual time with them. So many adults with issues coz of their physically or emotionally unavailable parents.

Holler at me when you get some teenagers :mjlol:

and we know that's exactly what's going to happen. Eventually he will settle down and marry a woman and live with her and have the children with that woman in the household...And the kids will resent that situation even more so....

But the reason why I say teenagers is because the dynamic always starts to change as the kids get older...They go from being happy and appreciative to angry and complaining about everything...
 

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FOH if humans that where in position financially/mentally practiced self control, America, China and damn near all 1st world countries would be a literal utopia. People are impulsive, and smarter people tend to breed less. Women don't value intelligence like that, you get what you get as a result.

You're a fukking idiot. Dwight could've easily used a condom.
 

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You're a fukking idiot. Dwight could've easily used a condom.
Your sense of emotion towards me as opposed to Dwight or the woman in question, tells me A LOT about your upbringing/family set up but I won't shyt on you about it, because I know how it affected your development.

Anywho, conversely, to your muddled point the girl could have made him, or used birth control, or had an abortion.

Responsibility isn't reserved for men, not all men are responsible and women are ALWAYS the gatekeepers of life. I'm not going to go back and forth

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no it’s not it’s real as fukk. This dude is 12. He is living very well and his situation could be far worse. He’s unappreciative...If you don’t have kids especially teens or preteens shut up live life and come back even you do.

Kids complain about all kind of things...when you have a gang of other children you won’t be with them 24-7...And he probably doesn’t understand his mother has a role in it as well
Of course it would be the nikka whose father didn't raise him trying to justify being a deadbeat:mjlol:
 

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Your sense of emotion towards me as opposed to Dwight or the woman in question, tells me A LOT about your upbringing/family set up but I won't shyt on you about it, because I know how it affected your development.

Anywho, conversely, to your muddled point the girl could have made him, or used birth control, or had an abortion.

Responsibility isn't reserved for men, and women are the gatekeepers of life. I'm not going to go back and forth

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First off, you don’t know a damn thing about me. Keep that keyboard psychology for these other posters.

Secondly, they BOTH could've made better decisions. Stop placing blame squarely on the woman. That’s some sucka shyt.
 

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Of course it would be the nikka whose father didn't raise him trying to justify being a deadbeat:mjlol:

my father raised me by himself my mom died when I was 8 what are you talking about?

sometimes you dudes just say shyt to try to get a rise out of people huh.
 

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First off, you don’t know a damn thing about me. Keep that keyboard psychology for these other posters.

Secondly, they BOTH could've made better decisions. Stop placing blame squarely on the woman. That’s some sucka shyt.

Life ain't fair and men and women aren't equally yoked, Dwight been out here that's why I'm not shocked. Dummies gon' dummy it's on those with shyt to lose to know better and a woman will lose her body for 9 months in terms of complete autonomy, and some never get back in terms of aesthetics after kids. Women literally choose what life comes into this world and what life doesn't, that's not up for debate that's biology. Historically women have terminated pregnancies when they didn't want them brought to term out of protest for mistreatment/abuse (slaves, concubines, etc.), or out of the inability to care for them (poor women, women who can't make the time).

All things being equal yes BOTH can make better choices, but if the man already has a track record of dropping seeds and moving fast/not being a present father in addition to the whole ordeal being the woman's call with her having more to lose immediately. I'll place more blame on her. The same way people place more blame on men for marrying golddiggers, when they have a clear motive/track record.

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