I feel the OP to a certain extent.
I'm like if a chick only like me for what I wear and what i got then it's not real...
BUT, I do like to dress nicer and more stylish as I get older. I rarely go all out with a full suit, but as I get older I do more of the dress shirt/ tie with slacks, or long sleeve fitted shirts. You know, just looking clean while rocking a Joe Budden beard just to let you know that some things are still hood.
Or I rock a lot of V-neck shirts instead of regular Tee's if i'm going somewhere casual. I used to rock the Lacosse polo's... might have to get back on that.
I'm actually taking this one chick shopping today (I'm not buying her shyt, just tagging along and maybe see what she likes or what she thinks I would like). I'm debating on wearing my foams or just something more casual but maybe classier.