Swirling is swirling.
However.......
How many pawgers dream of marrying white and having redhead/yellabone kids and living in a 100% white burb in Connecticut? Feels like most nikkas just wanna smash any woman that's fine: dark chocolate all the way to pink nip city.
Wenchers don't seem to "lust" after white men for casual fun but instead genuinely think they are better than brehs...at least at a higher rate than the opposite.
Basically - brehs lusting after pawgs = pawgs lusting after brehs that fit a certain stereotype they love (Carlton Banks, hood nikka, Mandingo etc). Lusting and just wanting to smash isn't self hate.
Eliminating your own race as marriageable IS self-hate, regardless of the gender or race of the person.