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Relationships are worthless in 2016-17. Especially with how girls be acting like guys jumping from dikk to dikk without a care. You need to start following more women on social media so you can get an idea how they think. They say some shyt that will have lame simps like
Thats why i'm so out here now. I'm numb to this shyt.
Thats why i just smash and dash. These women really do not give a fukk. Why should i?
bruh i been on here for years and i still dont get what coli nikkas mean by #HOH lmao
Well while we're here you might as well come out with it
nygga in here championing HOH and then telling us a story about how many hoes your homie hit?
Get your weight up
You're very immature, just grow up man
Most of the people that are out here claiming #HOH are still reeling in pain deep down because they were rejected/hurt by a girl(s) in the past. Grow up smh
So basically this nikka been talking to this bytch on and off for a few months while juggling other bytches. They started talking they met at some Starbucks in the city. At the time she is like you a cool nikka but I got a boyfriend blah blah so he is like aiight cool. This was in like June/July.
So he did not hit her up at all - And saw her again around the same Starbucks in Oct. It's like 3 months later. She was like oh hey how come you haven't hit me up. He's like I'm busy what's good with you. So at the time he was with a female co-worker and she looked good so this triggered the bytch competition gene.
All of a sudden she's flirty it's after work she's like let's go get a drink. The co-worker bounced she's like don't stay out late we got a 9am meeting. It was a Thurs night. They had 3 drinks he grabbed her buttcheeks during the meeting but didn't take her home. He is in BK she's in BX.
So he's like I'll see you when I see you. Well you know she wasn't expecting this shyt. This nikka practically tossed her aside twice. This is the magic trick. Another month passes by it's now last week. bytch happens to be in BK visiting a friend and for whatever reason hits this nikka up. They hang out again Sunday he's like I'm off Monday she's like I'm not so I gotta leave early. So she still playing games the same shyt. He's like whatever. She goes home and then turns out she calls in sick today. She's like can you come over with some medicine he's like nah I know you not sick plus you too far.
Well that was the straw she is like this nikka really don't care so she took a cab to his house and was like what the fukk why are you such an a$$hole you need to take care of me. He's like nah I ain't your father.
Basically after that it was on she starts taking the clothes off and basically initiates the whole thing. That's when he said "Did you eat tacos your breath kinda harsh" (tone is very important here) and then took control as I stated above.
Keep in mind this was long drawn out for obvious reasons:
- She's like a 9/10 he's like a 7/10 maybe in terms of looks/status/wealth
- She's got a lot of options obviously he ain't the only one, but then he demonstrated value by being non-committal leaving her to wonder about his options and why he ain't thirsting
- She's a dumb hormonal bytch that will let shyt fall off for dumb reasons and her ego
Sometimes you gotta plan this shyt out if you really want the bytch. Find out key details like where she work or live. Then create a "chance" meeting. Then be non-chalant turn up the heat but then back off.
He didn't feed into her at all and treated her like an annoying child. With a lot of gorgeous hoes this is what you got to do.
Of course if she's less attractive just modify your stance and soften the mental games accordingly.
OP, how do you be #HOH and approachable at the same time?
All the hoes I have fukked with said that they were scared of me at first because my face is always status.
I'm sure I could pull way more if I could find a balance.
It is a balance.
I hold the door open for bytches but when they ask me for money I say no
When I was dogging I kicked them out of my crib right after sex but then I pay for their cab home (within reason) and text them to make sure they got home OK.
Be firm and cordial but don't take BS and let them know of their boundaries and what they need to do to get more access to your time and money.
If they don't follow instructions = Bushes
Like me I have pet peeves and tendencies. And if they violate that shyt like digging in my pockets or looking at my phone and we just met that is a big NO NO.
If they seem like honest fukk up they head was just somewhere else OK. But it's basically 3 strikes and bushes and let them know from the beginning in a joking half-serious manner.
And when you cut them off don't be emotional just be like it's OK not everyone can make the team you are free to apply 3 months from now after your punishment period. (can be less time if you want, depends on how fly she is)
That kind of shyt will make them go ghost for a while but definitely boomerang back once the time is right. Have had a ho come back and text after 2 months like "Am I off probation yet?"
I said we can suspend the sentence if you give the Judge some good top
So it's cool to be cordial with bytches and lighten up when they first meet you?
Hoh just means don't supplicate to hoesIf you stop chasing hoes you wont have to be #HOH...
Most of the people that are out here claiming #HOH are still reeling in pain deep down because they were rejected/hurt by a girl(s) in the past. Grow up smh
What you described is for the most part just living a healthy/happy lifestyle. Most people just use #HOH as an excuse to be misogynistic, or to cover up their insecurities.