Done Giving Men my Number :aicmon:

[Metta World Movement]

Bottom of the barrel?

I only entertain college educated/employed blk men with clean records and childless.

 

[ANewClassic]

Dog, this dude has hit me up x2 a day since the 15th and I have not responded. I really am not mean and I don't like cursing people out so I've just chosen to ignore the messages but it's like he's not getting it.

I'm pretty sure even if I cussed him out I'd still get that "good morning" text.

I'm going back to white guys.

I read through this whole post anticipating a comment about white guys.
I was not disappointed

 

[ThiefyPoo]

I text the next day and depending how the convo goes I take it from there. Learned a hard lesson from my ex she said if I hadn't texted her the next day she would have never even answered.

 

[Rawtid]

I text the next day and depending how the convo goes I take it from there. Learned a hard lesson from my ex she said if I hadn't texted her the next day she would have never even answered.

Well why is she your ex? Could have saved yourself the hassle.

 

[Wild self]

So in these confused ladies minds, what's the ideal way for a man to contact you for a date/ hanging out?

Ill wait

 

[T'Kuvma Da Unforgettable]

yall heard this uneducated,motherless, booger-wolf slag speak?



aint no muthafukking way in hell she even close to them 2- bytches skeets be smashing

yall believe there are nikkas out there approaching her for digits?

 

[kermit da hustla]

Any fella with real woman dealing skills knows that its the smart move to give the woman the number, not the other way around. I hand out my number, go eat some oatmeal and let her do all of the footwork.

eh....i think a lot of females will see through that and toss the number, even if they were initially feeling you.

 

[Swiggy]

Some dudes got trained by a female at some point for long conversations on the regular. I think some of them just approach women thinking that a past experience with another girl is gonna carry some weight with a new one.

Don't be afraid to coach a young breh up on what he's fukkin up on. Be surprised how small shyt gets in the way of good ass people.

 

[Bilz]

These cats don't get it, you can really play around and make them do work.

The funniest thing you can do is move closer and pull the phone out and play with it when the convo is ending and its almost time to wrap it up to see if she'll reach in for it. I had one just snatch the phone out of my hand and put her name and number in it, hunger always wins.

Yeah it's really so much easier that way. You never really know which girls are sincere and which ones were just out that night to try to piss off their boyfriends. A lot of girls are also just too nice and give out their number more liberally than they should.

It's so much easier to just give them the # and keep going instead of being sprung off of some girl you met one time. If they call later, , if not, you've probably already met some new girls since then so who cares.

It honestly makes more sense for the girl too. If she gives her number out 5-10 times over a weekend, she might be getting called by all of those guys just because they're thirsty and not necessarily because they're into her. If she took the 5-10 numbers instead, she could call the one guy she actually liked.

 

[iamstr8fire]

Got my wife's number on a Saturday. CALLED on Sunday. We got along great. Been together since.















I do know a dude that will text you 179 times the day after he gets your number tho.

 

[Sharp]

These bytches are confused.

Personally, I only call a chick when I'm trying to link up with you. Broads are notorious for trying to have long drawn out phone conversations.

Nah, rule of thumb is that the more you talk on the phone, the less you'll have to talk about in person. You can talk yourself out of the p*ssy.

But if you don't follow up within the first week, she may forget who the hell you are.

But most of these chicks are attention whores, so they want you to call them asap. I think OP is frontin, cause most women like that attention.

 

[Ooh Marty]

It seem as tho you guys don't get it

THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH CALLING A CHICK THE DAY AFTER MEETING HER!

My issue is blowing up my phone for no reason on some stalker type shyt.

 

[Nintendough]

Meh, calling the day after is a lot of work. I would rather just hand off my number and go play madden.

 

[winb83]

A woman gets one call in the very beginning, if she misses it or don't call back she's probably a waste of my time and I move on. Number gets deleted right then and there.

 

[ThiefyPoo]

Well why is she your ex? Could have saved yourself the hassle.

things just didn't work.


My point was don't be scared to text a woman the next day. A grown woman isn't gonna shyt on you because text her the day after yall first encountered.


If she does well she is immature.